hem again.

Ever notice that the things you focus your attention on happen even when they are exactly what you don't want to happen? It's kind of like calling out an old lover's name when passionate with a current lover. It's something you never want to do, but you're so paranoid that it might happen

From a business perspective, rejection is the best of teachers. Look over your documents. Do you see flaws in your r?sum? you failed to see earlier? If so, fix them. The great thing about the electronic age is that r?sum?s can be cranked out, and out, and out. Tailor the next r?sum? you send out to fit the position to a T. Did your cover letter fail to sell you? Did your follow-up letter do its job?

Remember my little buddy, the soon-to-be college graduate? I wrote his r?sum?. After a couple of interviews without offers, he called me, whining and begging, for me to rewrite his r?sum?. I frankly told him that if he was getting interviews then the paperwork was just fine. It was his interviewing that failed him.

So go over the interview in your head. Don't go over it until you can repeat the errors on automatic pilot. Go over it to examine what you think you did wrong, and more so, what you know you did right. The things you did wrong are over and done. You can't undo them; you can't call up the interviewer and ask for another chance; you can't do one thing about them. Forget them because they will nurture negative energy if fed. Forget them because if you focus your attention on them, you will do them again.

Ever notice that the things you focus your attention on happen even when they are exactly what you don't want to happen? It's kind of like calling out an old lover's name when passionate with a current lover. It's something you never want to do, but you're so paranoid that it might happen t

position to a T. Did your cover letter fail to sell you? Did your follow-up letter do its job?

Remember my little buddy, the soon-to-be college graduate? I wrote his r?sum?. After a couple of interviews without offers, he called me, whining and begging, for me to rewrite his r?sum?. I frankly told him that if he was getting interviews then the paperwork was just fine. It was his interviewing that failed him.

So go over the interview in your head. Don't go over it until you can repeat the errors on automatic pilot. Go over it to examine what you think you did wrong, and more so, what you know you did right. The things you did wrong are over and done. You can't undo them; you can't call up the interviewer and ask for another chance; you can't do one thing about them. Forget them because they will nurture negative energy if fed. Forget them because if you focus your attention on them, you will do them again.

Ever notice that the things you focus your attention on happen even when they are exactly what you don't want to happen? It's kind of like calling out an old lover's name when passionate with a current lover. It's something you never want to do, but you're so paranoid that it might happen

im that if he was getting interviews then the paperwork was just fine. It was his interviewing that failed him.

So go over the interview in your head. Don't go over it until you can repeat the errors on automatic pilot. Go over it to examine what you think you did wrong, and more so, what you know you did right. The things you did wrong are over and done. You can't undo them; you can't call up the interviewer and ask for another chance; you can't do one thing about them. Forget them because they will nurture negative energy if fed. Forget them because if you focus your attention on them, you will do them again.

Ever notice that the things you focus your attention on happen even when they are exactly what you don't want to happen? It's kind of like calling out an old lover's name when passionate with a current lover. It's something you never want to do, but you're so paranoid that it might happen

u did right. The things you did wrong are over and done. You can't undo them; you can't call up the interviewer and ask for another chance; you can't do one thing about them. Forget them because they will nurture negative energy if fed. Forget them because if you focus your attention on them, you will do them again.

Ever notice that the things you focus your attention on happen even when they are exactly what you don't want to happen? It's kind of like calling out an old lover's name when passionate with a current lover. It's something you never want to do, but you're so paranoid that it might happen

hem again.

Ever notice that the things you focus your attention on happen even when they are exactly what you don't want to happen? It's kind of like calling out an old lover's name when passionate with a current lover. It's something you never want to do, but you're so paranoid that it might happen that it does! Well, focusing on all the errors in an interview is pretty much the same. If you focus on them enough, they will happen again.

I talk fast. I hate talking fast. My mother talked fast, and it's how I learned to talk. With people I know well, I can pace myself. In front of a crowd, I am just fine. In fact, in college my public speaking even took awards. But when I have to meet somebody influential in my life for the first time, I am a wreck over the speed of my speech. I worry that I won't be able to sound intelligent. Of course, without fail, I trip over my words and sound like an idiot.

One time, I was in conversation with a total stranger at a party, and I was talking well. Our energy had connected, and we were soon bouncing from topic to topic with great ease. As we chatted, I noticed out of the corner of my eye that a substantial crowd of people was waiting for this man's attention. Finally, I asked him who he was. He looked a little surprised. It was apparent from the look on his face that he thought I was kidding, but I wasn't. I really didn't know who he was. He smiled and told me his name, smiled a little more, and told me his title. He was a federal judge. In fact, he was one