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Free Business Leads
Every firm looks out for free business leads since they are free of cost. But getting free business leads requires a lot of effort on your part. Firstly, you have to define the business. Defining one’s business accurately is the starting point of getting business leads. It is the prime requisite for selecting the right opportunities and steering the firm in the right direction.In addition, to make sense out of the multifarious changes taking place in the environment, to understand what a possible benefit is and what could be a hidden threat, a firm must first understand what business it is in, exactly. While preparing a business lead, a firm must know what its aspirations are, where exactly it would like to reach and what it would like itself to be in the future.Proper definition of the business does bring several benefits to the firm. It reveals to the firm many relevant facts about its functioning, which it may not be aware of otherwise; many closed assumptions get tested. It brings to the fore the

egative emotion to the other person. It can help to check in and remind yourself that each party is trying to create the best outcome. If you’re not confident that each party is striving for the best outcome, you have more important things to talk about!

5. Listen for the needs and values behind the words. What does your companion need that they might not be getting? Is it validation, support, or a safe place to vent? What do they value? Is it excellence, harmony, achievement or adventure? When you clue into needs and values, you ask better questions, identify un-named issues and ultimately dig deeper into what really matters.

6. The conversation hasn’t ended just because the conversation has ended. Fierce conversation will often leave us with points to ponder and emotions to sort out. It can often help the ongoing dialogue move forward if you schedule a follow up conversation.

Make room for silence.

Fierce conversations make room for silence. The more emotionally loaded the issue, the more important silence becomes. Silence enables us each to reflect on our thoughts and achieve new levels of insight and integration. Silence can often be the turning point in a conversation. It also creates space for everyone in the room to offer their opinion.

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Intelligent Design comes from Brand & Account Planners
I’ve been reminded recently, rather forcefully, that not all reality hackers are anti-neoconservatives. Bush endorses teaching ‘intelligent design’. I can’t help hearing “intelligent design” as emerging from scores of focus group research.There’s a war going on. I’m not safe in my own house. Americans are bombarded by 3,000 paid messages each day Media uses militaristic terminology. In movie theaters, we are referred to as captive audiences. TV networks call us a target. If I click on a banner ad they refer to me as a hit.I’m sitting among memetic hitmen. I’m writing from the 2005 US Account Planning Conference -Exploring the New Power of Creativity in Chicago's Fairmont hotel.I’m not a registered attendee as I have been in years past. I’m wireless in the lobby of the Fairmont Hotel, so I am a paying customer of the hotel. I’m only trespassing when I actually attend the conference or eat a meal at their open buffets.If you’ve read Thomas Frank's One Market Under God, you know who the

In the first article on fierce conversations, we examined the fact that doing business is essentially an extended series of conversations. We also talked about the fact that ongoing business success is dependent upon the ability to regularly engage in conversations that are robust, thought provoking and passionate. These are what we refer to as fierce conversations. This concept is so elegantly simple, yet so very critical, that we are devoting a series of three newsletters to the concept.

This is the second of three articles on the subject of fierce conversations and in this issue, we focus on listening. Why it is so important, why few of us are consistently effective listeners and what can be done to improve listening skills. We also address the use of silence which is one of the most powerful, yet underutilized tools for effective conversation.

Are you listening?

As humans on this planet, we all have a basic need to feel understood. In order to feel understood, we need to feel heard. We need to know that the person we are talking to has put their own thoughts and agenda aside so they can give us their full attention. If this doesn’t happen, it doesn’t matter who’s right, who’s smarter or who has a better solution. Without truly listening, it’s virtually impossible to reach a positive outcome to a fierce conversation.

Who hasn’t had the experience of having a frustrating conversation? One where we felt like the other person wasn’t really listening. Where you could tell they were just waiting for their chance to speak. How productive are those conversations? Not very. When one party doesn’t feel heard the conversation breaks down and both parties leave frustrated.

In order to really listen, we must be fully present. What are you doing when engaged in conversation? When you’re on the phone are you also typing away at your keyboard? When having a conversation, it is not time to be multi-tasking. Check in with yourself. Are you thinking about what you’re going to say next? What you’re going to have for lunch? So often, our brain takes a break while in the middle of a conversation. And when we allow this to happen, we undermine our ability to connect through listening.

When we do not give the other party our 100% attention, we essentially tell them they are not important to us. We will also miss many subtle cues that tell us what’s going on beneath the surface. Ultimately we lose the chance to have a fierce conversation.

If listening is so important, why is it so hard?

Many people think they are good listeners, when more often that not, they’re just good talkers. Instead of tuning in fully to the person across from them, people spend their time sharing knowledge, offering tips or solutions and providing feedback. The result is that one of the two people in the conversation feels talked to rather than listened to.

One reason why listening is so difficult can be traced back to basic brain science. On average, our mind processes between 600 and 1000 words per minute. Yet, most people speak at the rate of about 125 words per minute. This leaves quite a gap in speaking speed versus processing speed. This gap is a temptation to tune out. We could call this mouth speed versus mind speed. So what happens in the act of listening, or trying to listen, is that the brain starts multi-tasking, and can go on a number of its own little detours before coming back to the person that is speaking. So that by the time the other person finishes their thoughts, we’ve taken a mini-vacation!

Tips for Listening

1. Listening does not equal agreeing. Active listening requires you put your agenda aside for as long it takes to be sure you understand the other person’s position. The more complex the issue, the longer it takes. When we listen instead of talking we can start to feel like we’re implying that we agree and are tempted to start defending our position. Resist the temptation! Just because you are listening to their words, emotions and body language, it doesn’t mean you are agreeing with their position.

2. Questions only. Questions are much more effective than answers in provoking learning. Many of us are eager to show what we know, to demonstrate our value. So as soon as someone says, “This is my issue,” we leap in with suggestions, stories about our experience, quotes from the latest journals without noticing that the other person’s eyes have glazed over. And you should only ask questions to which you do not know the answer. Otherwise it’s not a question, it’s a manipulation.

3. How do you listen when you know you’re going to be tested? You listen with more intention and focus than usual. Make it a point to repeat back to the other person what you hear them saying. It can feel odd at first but it serves two purposes. First, it challenges you to listen more carefully than usual. Secondly, it demonstrates your understanding of their point.

4. Check your assumptions about motive. When we assume that each party wants a positive outcome, we are better at listening. When we start to get frustrated with each other, it’s easy to ascribe a negative emotion to the other person. It can help to check in and remind yourself that each party is trying to create the best outcome. If you’re not confident that each party is striving for the best outcome, you have more important things to talk about!

Make room for silence.

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Taking the Kick Out of Coke
The Coca-Cola Company’s marketing genius over the past century has perpetuated an American myth, a horse and buggy Gilded Age saga formulated in a laboratory and shrouded in secrecy equal to that of the National Security Agency. The company would have us believe that a little known folksy pharmacist, Dr. John Stith Pemberton, while poring over his steaming cauldrons, created the mystery syrup in 1886 to which carbonated water was added and presto! The most famous soda fountain drink in the history of the world was born. In reality John Pemberton, a highly respected Atlanta businessman with an extraordinary gift for medical chemistry, imitated a French ‘coca wine’ formula originally cooked up by a European chemist. Referring to it as an “invigorator of the brain,” Pemberton claimed it could cure a variety of ailments from indigestion to nervous disorders and sexual dysfunction. When the city of Atlanta introduced Prohibition in 1886, he substituted sugar syrup for the alcoholic

sible to reach a positive outcome to a fierce conversation.

If listening is so important, why is it so hard?

Tips for Listening

Make room for silence.

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Online Dropshipping in the UK - Starting a New Buisness
One of the most appealing aspects of dropshipping is you can run your business from anywhere with an Internet connection. You could easily run a business like this in your spare time. You don’t have to buy your stock in bulk, store it, or even post it. The focus of your online business will be advertising and promotion. Almost everything else will be taken care of by your chosen dropshipping company.First you need to choose a product. Probably the best thing to sell is something that you’re interested in, this way, you’ll easily spot a niche in your chosen market, you’ll know how much profit you can make, and more importantly you’ll know how to sell the item.Finding dropshippers can sometimes be quite difficult, although dropshipping in the US is huge, the practice in the UK is still relatively new. Directories with lists of dropshippers are often filled with broken and irrelevant links. Try "The Dropshippers" for a free dropshipping list, or subscribe for over 100 UK dropshippers. Many of these webs

eners, when more often that not, they’re just good talkers. Instead of tuning in fully to the person across from them, people spend their time sharing knowledge, offering tips or solutions and providing feedback. The result is that one of the two people in the conversation feels talked to rather than listened to.

Tips for Listening

Make room for silence.

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Creating Awareness Using Promotional Bags
Promotional bags are one of the most useful and effective promotional products to customize with your logo. Promotional bags allow thundered of people around the word to remember your brand. By virtue of the fact that all promotional bags are designed to be portable, and ad space is usually very large, you can expect your brand to be highly visible in the marketplace.Priceless advertising, there are hundreds of bags that will suit the style of your company or that will help get you message across. There are a number of promotional bags to use which will help increase branding awareness, this include tote bags, drawstring bags, conference bags, laptop bags and much more.There are also a number of effective ways to distribute promotional bags. Trade shows is an excellent example of where promotional bags can be used. I small token can make all the difference in those exhibitions, conference or trade shows. Giveaways using drawstring bags have always be

’re implying that we agree and are tempted to start defending our position. Resist the temptation! Just because you are listening to their words, emotions and body language, it doesn’t mean you are agreeing with their position.

Make room for silence.

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Office Space Planning - How To Get Your Furniture Project Started
Office space planning, design, specifications, and project management tend to become intermingled for many furniture projects. However, in this article we will discuss the overall subject of space planning. First of all, let me say that if an architect is involved in your project, he or she will probably play a major role in the furniture and space planning decisions.The planning stage can have several different scenarios: Your project could require all new furniture, reconfiguring existing furniture, or a combination of both. The office furniture dealership should have experience in your particular situation and should be capable of creating a plan based on your goals and the future plans of your company.In order to determine these goals and future plans, interviews with the appropriate people in specific departments is necessary. After the interview process is completed, your furniture representative should have recommendations that would best serve the needs of your company.Office space p

Make room for silence.

Silence is an under-utilized tool. It often makes us feel uncomfortable. Many of us unconsciously think we have to fill silences and that something is wrong if no one is talking.

The following are indications that silence might move the conversation forward:

• If you find yourself interrupting by talking over someone else.
• Thinking of what you’re going to say when someone is talking.
• Knee jerk reactions where you respond with out thinking first.
• When you find yourself “demonstrating your expertise” because you feel insecure.
• Offering advice before the other person has had a chance to fully explain the situation.
• When you’re doing most of the talking.
• When you create a distraction by changing topics.
• Saying the same thing over and over again.

When used incorrectly, silence can be dangerous too. Silence can be passive aggressive or result in disengaging from the conversation. It can be used to avoid topics that are uncomfortable or ones we’d rather not look at. If you question whether or not silence is productive, take a look at your feelings and motives. If you find yourself pulling away or observe your companion pulling away, say so and get the conversation back on track.

Although there are at least two people in a conversation, it only takes one person who chooses to actively listen and make room for silence to have a fierce conversation. This opportunity works in your favor because YOU can be that person. In the coming weeks, try something different, stay present, listen closely, ask questions and make room for silence. You will be amazed at the outcome.

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