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    rstand your grief. Understand that there are some people that do not put the same value on a relationship with a pet as you do.

    There are some people that think pets are not a necessary part of life and they cannot comprehend such emotional attachment.

    Allow them to feel as they do. You know the joy that they are missing.

    Grief and depression are normal feelings; it matters not if your loss was a person or a pet. The feelings are just as intense and need to be expressed.

    If someone you know has lost a pet, let them talk, express your feelings and sympathy. Send them a card (there are cards for loss of pets,) write a note in your own words to expr

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    Losing a pet for most of us is one of the darkest days of our lives.

    The loss, whether it is by death due to health reasons or an accident, or simply a pet that has just disappeared, there are no words to describe the emptiness we feel.

    We feel that the empty spot in our heart, will never fill up and we will always feel like a “half of a person.”

    The ray of sunshine, the one bright spot in our sometime dreary lives has left us.

    How do we cope?

    The process is different for each of us. The important thing is “we have to face it and deal with our grief.”

    By denying our feelings, we are hurting ourselves emotionally and we are not honoring the life of our “best friend.”

    Whatever the situation, a pet that was ill, a sudden unnecessary accident or a pet that wandered off and can’t be found, each has to be dealt with.

    You, as an emotional human being, need to honor the existence of your wonderful pet and by doing that; you will heal the empty spots in yourself.

    How do you do that?

    Simply by allowing yourself to go through all of the stages of grief. It does not matter, which stage you go through first, you just must begin.

    The first stage is denial.

    You cannot believe your pet is gone. In your mind you think it is a mistake, that it was not your cat or dog that got run over, your pet was not really sick and even though your pet ran out the open door and cannot be found, you know it will come back. It is okay for now to believe that.

    Face every feeling that comes up. Get angry, scream and yell, if it makes you feel better.

    Allow yourself to feel massive anger toward the vet, the person who accidentally hit your pet, or get mad at the pet who ran away.

    Let what ever you are feeling flow free, do not keep it bottled up inside.

    Talk to a close friend or family member, actually sometimes talking to a wall helps even more.

    Try bargaining with whatever “Supreme Being” you believe in helps. Even though you know that whatever the terms of your bargain is, it will not bring your pet back, with the exception of the lost one.

    Cry, sometimes crying is the best medicine. Cry until you think your heart will break and then cry some more. Cry intermittently for days, if that is how you feel. It really is okay.

    Talk to people, your vet, and your minister or seek a professional counselor, if you feel you can not cope.

    The Internet has a wonderful site called www.lightening-strike.com. It is a “cybershoulder’ to cry on, a place where you will find others who feel just as you do and you can share your feelings.

    Do not feel rejected, if some of your family or friends do not understand your grief. Understand that there are some people that do not put the same value on a relationship with a pet as you do.

    There are some people that think pets are not a necessary part of life and they cannot comprehend such emotional attachment.

    Allow them to feel as they do. You know the joy that they are missing.

    Grief and depression are normal feelings; it matters not if your loss was a person or a pet. The feelings are just as intense and need to be expressed.

    If someone you know has lost a pet, let them talk, express your feelings and sympathy. Send them a card (there are cards for loss of pets,) write a note in your own words to expre

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    e life of our “best friend.”

    Whatever the situation, a pet that was ill, a sudden unnecessary accident or a pet that wandered off and can’t be found, each has to be dealt with.

    You, as an emotional human being, need to honor the existence of your wonderful pet and by doing that; you will heal the empty spots in yourself.

    How do you do that?

    Simply by allowing yourself to go through all of the stages of grief. It does not matter, which stage you go through first, you just must begin.

    The first stage is denial.

    You cannot believe your pet is gone. In your mind you think it is a mistake, that it was not your cat or dog that got run over, your pet was not really sick and even though your pet ran out the open door and cannot be found, you know it will come back. It is okay for now to believe that.

    Face every feeling that comes up. Get angry, scream and yell, if it makes you feel better.

    Allow yourself to feel massive anger toward the vet, the person who accidentally hit your pet, or get mad at the pet who ran away.

    Let what ever you are feeling flow free, do not keep it bottled up inside.

    Talk to a close friend or family member, actually sometimes talking to a wall helps even more.

    Try bargaining with whatever “Supreme Being” you believe in helps. Even though you know that whatever the terms of your bargain is, it will not bring your pet back, with the exception of the lost one.

    Cry, sometimes crying is the best medicine. Cry until you think your heart will break and then cry some more. Cry intermittently for days, if that is how you feel. It really is okay.

    Talk to people, your vet, and your minister or seek a professional counselor, if you feel you can not cope.

    The Internet has a wonderful site called www.lightening-strike.com. It is a “cybershoulder’ to cry on, a place where you will find others who feel just as you do and you can share your feelings.

    Do not feel rejected, if some of your family or friends do not understand your grief. Understand that there are some people that do not put the same value on a relationship with a pet as you do.

    There are some people that think pets are not a necessary part of life and they cannot comprehend such emotional attachment.

    Allow them to feel as they do. You know the joy that they are missing.

    Grief and depression are normal feelings; it matters not if your loss was a person or a pet. The feelings are just as intense and need to be expressed.

    If someone you know has lost a pet, let them talk, express your feelings and sympathy. Send them a card (there are cards for loss of pets,) write a note in your own words to expr

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    ur pet was not really sick and even though your pet ran out the open door and cannot be found, you know it will come back. It is okay for now to believe that.

    Face every feeling that comes up. Get angry, scream and yell, if it makes you feel better.

    Allow yourself to feel massive anger toward the vet, the person who accidentally hit your pet, or get mad at the pet who ran away.

    Let what ever you are feeling flow free, do not keep it bottled up inside.

    Talk to a close friend or family member, actually sometimes talking to a wall helps even more.

    Try bargaining with whatever “Supreme Being” you believe in helps. Even though you know that whatever the terms of your bargain is, it will not bring your pet back, with the exception of the lost one.

    Cry, sometimes crying is the best medicine. Cry until you think your heart will break and then cry some more. Cry intermittently for days, if that is how you feel. It really is okay.

    Talk to people, your vet, and your minister or seek a professional counselor, if you feel you can not cope.

    The Internet has a wonderful site called www.lightening-strike.com. It is a “cybershoulder’ to cry on, a place where you will find others who feel just as you do and you can share your feelings.

    Do not feel rejected, if some of your family or friends do not understand your grief. Understand that there are some people that do not put the same value on a relationship with a pet as you do.

    There are some people that think pets are not a necessary part of life and they cannot comprehend such emotional attachment.

    Allow them to feel as they do. You know the joy that they are missing.

    Grief and depression are normal feelings; it matters not if your loss was a person or a pet. The feelings are just as intense and need to be expressed.

    If someone you know has lost a pet, let them talk, express your feelings and sympathy. Send them a card (there are cards for loss of pets,) write a note in your own words to expr

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    r the terms of your bargain is, it will not bring your pet back, with the exception of the lost one.

    Cry, sometimes crying is the best medicine. Cry until you think your heart will break and then cry some more. Cry intermittently for days, if that is how you feel. It really is okay.

    Talk to people, your vet, and your minister or seek a professional counselor, if you feel you can not cope.

    The Internet has a wonderful site called www.lightening-strike.com. It is a “cybershoulder’ to cry on, a place where you will find others who feel just as you do and you can share your feelings.

    Do not feel rejected, if some of your family or friends do not understand your grief. Understand that there are some people that do not put the same value on a relationship with a pet as you do.

    There are some people that think pets are not a necessary part of life and they cannot comprehend such emotional attachment.

    Allow them to feel as they do. You know the joy that they are missing.

    Grief and depression are normal feelings; it matters not if your loss was a person or a pet. The feelings are just as intense and need to be expressed.

    If someone you know has lost a pet, let them talk, express your feelings and sympathy. Send them a card (there are cards for loss of pets,) write a note in your own words to expr

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    rstand your grief. Understand that there are some people that do not put the same value on a relationship with a pet as you do.

    There are some people that think pets are not a necessary part of life and they cannot comprehend such emotional attachment.

    Allow them to feel as they do. You know the joy that they are missing.

    Grief and depression are normal feelings; it matters not if your loss was a person or a pet. The feelings are just as intense and need to be expressed.

    If someone you know has lost a pet, let them talk, express your feelings and sympathy. Send them a card (there are cards for loss of pets,) write a note in your own words to express your thoughts and feelings. It will be appreciated.

    Don’t offer advice

    Euthanasia: If you are faced with making the decision to have your pet euthanized, it can be the hardest thing you may ever have to do.

    The thoughts of guilt that can fill your mind will be overwhelming.

    Whatever the health situation is of your pet, you are never prepared to make that decision, no matter how well you know, you should make it.

    When that time comes, most of us do two things, we pray for a miracle recovery or we pray for the pet to make the decision for us by passing in its sleep.

    The thought of making the decision to take your pet’s life, to many of us is like “playing God” and we do not like that choice.

    Euthanasia is a painless death; it is accomplished by an injection of a strong dose of anesthetic. It takes only seconds to put the pet into a state of unconsciousness, then the breathing and the heart stops.

    If you are considering this process for your pet, here are a few thoughts to hopefully help you make the right decision and to feel better about making it.

  • Is the current quality of my pet’s life a good one?

  • Is my pet eating and is it interested in what is going on

    around it?

  • Is there any pain associated with my pet’s condition?

  • Are there any options available that I have not tried, to help

    my pet?

  • Is my pet comfortable and aware of me?

  • Do I want to be present, when the injection is given?

    These are just a few questions to consider.

    Do not feel guilty regarding whatever choice you make. Know in your heart that you will make the correct decision and whatever it is IT WILL BE THE RIGHT ONE for you and your pet.

    Your vet will be only to happy to give you counsel, but do not expect your vet to make the decision for you.

    It is your choice, your vet can only tell you what to expect if you decide not to and what will happen if you do.

    How do you tell the children?

    First and foremost you, tell the children the “TRUTH.”

    Children are so much wiser that we give them credit for. They are aware of death, as they see it everyday, dead bugs, animals hit by cars, and birds that the “cat” got.

    It is truly wrong not to be truthful with them, tell them if the household pet is sick and will soon die, or the pet has met with a sudden accident.

    Children of all ages should be allowed to grieve, even if they don’t understand the significance of death.

    One of the worse things parent do, is tell the younger children that the pet is “going to be put to sleep” that phrase can cause much damage.

    A young child can interp

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