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Casual Articles - Don't Bring it Home - Protecting your Love Life from Disaster
Concern for one’s own safety or the safety of his loved ones should be a priority. With crime rates escalating to new highs, and with more low-income families moving into your neighborhood that once catered to the middle or upper class, one must be on guard in defense of himself or family members.At what age should a person be allowed to carry a personal defense item such as pepper spray? Before a child is allowed to carry pepper spray for his/her own protection, parents must take into account several considerations:1. maturity of your son/daughter, 2. environment that your son/daughter is mostly going to be in, 3. personality and needs of the child, 4. local laws regarding a juvenile’s use of pepper spray.First you must consider the maturity of your son or daughter. A juvenile, or
Healthy self management in business means equal doses of chaos (aspiration, uncertainty, challenge, conflict, confusion, ambition) mixed, on a daily even hourly basis with order (appreciation, comfort, peace, agreement, acceptance, certainty, resignation) – this is the only sustainable business model there is, in tune with nature.
Chaos and order are natures hand. You can’t even escape them on a mountain top in Nepal. Chaos and order are the cells of your body, fighting disease, curing disease. It’s your relationship, confused and then bliss. You can choose to manage yourself in tune with nature by injecting equal quantities of both into your day, or be at the mercy of natures choices for you. Either way, there really is no choice.
My final word is to consider this. Once, to go to work – be in chaos all week and then order all weekend, was a good b
As Google continues the quest to rule the world, there are yet more reports that the company is strengthening its stable of partners in the mobile phone industry. The company is already in talks with massive US operator Airtel about introducing its specialised search engine expertise into Airtel handsets. Now it appears they are looking to go one step further, and release a Google-Orange handset, but will they be able to crack the market?While it will take a very brave person to back against the might of Google, they are entering a market which is cut throat, very fashion conscious and is dictated by fickle consumers. This is a market place which is not in the natural “comfort zone” of Google.As you would expect the company are looking to leverage their search engine expertise still further, and develop an addi
Busy day? Feeling completely shagged? Burned out from answering questions, solving problems, developing new strategies? Angry at that client what just won't get off your back, or the employee who stuffed up once again? Are you having a few cash flow problems that you just can’t share, and therefore your emotions are all bottled up making you tired, grumpy?
Don’t bring it home is an idea I got after staying with friends overseas and watching the father of the house come home wounded, day after day from work. It seems he felt justified – aka – proud of the fact that tiredness proved that the money he earned came the hard way, and therefore he was showing the family how hard it was to support them.
I came to the conclusion that much of our behaviour at work comes from that idea, that money earned easily is not right, and that money earned by hard work is better. But this contradicts natures law in a huge way.
Natures law is that abundance comes through evolution. Struggle reveals a lack of abundance. If we keep setting our budgets too high we keep ourselves in poverty. If we set them too low we keep ourselves in poverty also. Business grows at the border of chaos and order. The idea of the budget is to grow along that line, with healthy chunks of aspirational challenge and healthy chunks of abundant comfort.
Too much visioning, greed and overreach comes from a minimalist mind because it has no appreciation for what its got. It can only think about what it can have. That’s like the dog with a bone, who sees its magnified reflection in the water, drops the bone its got to reach for the bigger one in the water. Of course, it ends up with nothing.
If nature evolves at the border of chaos and order, then it is wise to think about your day in the same way. 50% of it should be healthy, abundant, happy, relaxed and comfortable. 50% should be challenged, stretched, visioning and tense. Now if you have 6 months of the latter, i.e. pressure, then nature will give you the other half, like it or not, by introducing a stroke, a heart problem, a loss of power or something to cause you balance.
Don’t bring it home begins with the recognition that all your life you will have a balance of chaos and order, at home and at work. You get to choose the chaos if you push yourself into areas you fear, feel uncertain in, feel out of your depth in. And you get to choose your order if you can balance your aspiration for more, more, more with the concept of daily periods of comfort and appreciation.
Now, the reason I say, don’t bring it home, is because you are part of a herd. Your family is your herd, and they are a part of other herds at school and at play. So, when you come in the door, either all pumped up because you achieved something, or all pumped down because you didn’t, then the balance factor becomes a virus. It spreads. One member of your herd reacts one way to you, another reacts differently and suddenly your incompetence at self management at work, becomes a trigger to your own family, and eventually all they touch too.
Sometimes we are so messed up in the way we manage our work that we have to “let our hair down” in big spurts of release. The pub, the gym, the overseas trip to name just 3. But there is a whole industry built around incompetent self management at work. This includes but is not limited to; hospitals, alternative medicine, chiropractors, prostitutes, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes and more. I think, if anti smoking campaigns were serious about reducing the affect of smoking, rather than the number of cigarettes smoked, they’d send this message about healthy self management to all people who work. Balance.
The final crunch comes when we try, through greed, goodwill, ambition, or plain inspiration to live on only one side of the chaos – order border. The masculine side is “of course” the chaos, drive and ambition, the feminine side is the order, nurturing and smelling the roses. We’re all a bit bent out of shape in balancing these two sides of ourselves. But nature doesn’t care. She’s got the bitch in her and if you think you can defy 3 billion years of her function here on earth, well think again.
Healthy self management in business means equal doses of chaos (aspiration, uncertainty, challenge, conflict, confusion, ambition) mixed, on a daily even hourly basis with order (appreciation, comfort, peace, agreement, acceptance, certainty, resignation) – this is the only sustainable business model there is, in tune with nature.
Chaos and order are natures hand. You can’t even escape them on a mountain top in Nepal. Chaos and order are the cells of your body, fighting disease, curing disease. It’s your relationship, confused and then bliss. You can choose to manage yourself in tune with nature by injecting equal quantities of both into your day, or be at the mercy of natures choices for you. Either way, there really is no choice.
My final word is to consider this. Once, to go to work – be in chaos all week and then order all weekend, was a good ba
For every investor in the world, there are hundreds of people who think they cannot afford to get into the game. Worried about expensive brokerage fees and the prices of stocks themselves, these people walk away from opportunities to invest and make money that can be phenomenal. Thanks to trading stocks online, this doesn't have to be the case.Trading stocks online is a fairly new venture that opens the doors for investing to virtually anyone with an Internet account and a few dollars to play with. With stocks ranging in price from a few pennies all they way up to the thousands, the field for investing online is quite great. Even the smallest of investments can pay off for those who do their homework, too.Before getting involved in trading stocks online, potential investors should do a few things. They include:s he felt justified – aka – proud of the fact that tiredness proved that the money he earned came the hard way, and therefore he was showing the family how hard it was to support them.
I came to the conclusion that much of our behaviour at work comes from that idea, that money earned easily is not right, and that money earned by hard work is better. But this contradicts natures law in a huge way.
Natures law is that abundance comes through evolution. Struggle reveals a lack of abundance. If we keep setting our budgets too high we keep ourselves in poverty. If we set them too low we keep ourselves in poverty also. Business grows at the border of chaos and order. The idea of the budget is to grow along that line, with healthy chunks of aspirational challenge and healthy chunks of abundant comfort.
Too much visioning, greed and overreach comes from a minimalist mind because it has no appreciation for what its got. It can only think about what it can have. That’s like the dog with a bone, who sees its magnified reflection in the water, drops the bone its got to reach for the bigger one in the water. Of course, it ends up with nothing.
If nature evolves at the border of chaos and order, then it is wise to think about your day in the same way. 50% of it should be healthy, abundant, happy, relaxed and comfortable. 50% should be challenged, stretched, visioning and tense. Now if you have 6 months of the latter, i.e. pressure, then nature will give you the other half, like it or not, by introducing a stroke, a heart problem, a loss of power or something to cause you balance.
Don’t bring it home begins with the recognition that all your life you will have a balance of chaos and order, at home and at work. You get to choose the chaos if you push yourself into areas you fear, feel uncertain in, feel out of your depth in. And you get to choose your order if you can balance your aspiration for more, more, more with the concept of daily periods of comfort and appreciation.
Now, the reason I say, don’t bring it home, is because you are part of a herd. Your family is your herd, and they are a part of other herds at school and at play. So, when you come in the door, either all pumped up because you achieved something, or all pumped down because you didn’t, then the balance factor becomes a virus. It spreads. One member of your herd reacts one way to you, another reacts differently and suddenly your incompetence at self management at work, becomes a trigger to your own family, and eventually all they touch too.
Sometimes we are so messed up in the way we manage our work that we have to “let our hair down” in big spurts of release. The pub, the gym, the overseas trip to name just 3. But there is a whole industry built around incompetent self management at work. This includes but is not limited to; hospitals, alternative medicine, chiropractors, prostitutes, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes and more. I think, if anti smoking campaigns were serious about reducing the affect of smoking, rather than the number of cigarettes smoked, they’d send this message about healthy self management to all people who work. Balance.
The final crunch comes when we try, through greed, goodwill, ambition, or plain inspiration to live on only one side of the chaos – order border. The masculine side is “of course” the chaos, drive and ambition, the feminine side is the order, nurturing and smelling the roses. We’re all a bit bent out of shape in balancing these two sides of ourselves. But nature doesn’t care. She’s got the bitch in her and if you think you can defy 3 billion years of her function here on earth, well think again.
Healthy self management in business means equal doses of chaos (aspiration, uncertainty, challenge, conflict, confusion, ambition) mixed, on a daily even hourly basis with order (appreciation, comfort, peace, agreement, acceptance, certainty, resignation) – this is the only sustainable business model there is, in tune with nature.
Chaos and order are natures hand. You can’t even escape them on a mountain top in Nepal. Chaos and order are the cells of your body, fighting disease, curing disease. It’s your relationship, confused and then bliss. You can choose to manage yourself in tune with nature by injecting equal quantities of both into your day, or be at the mercy of natures choices for you. Either way, there really is no choice.
My final word is to consider this. Once, to go to work – be in chaos all week and then order all weekend, was a good b
Are you a writer who makes a living, or tries to, by writing short stories, poetry books, magazine articles, or even novels? Perhaps you make a pretty decent income, and perhaps you’re doing well just to make ends meet. In any event, you most likely fall into the “self-employed” category, as most writers don’t have a traditional employer or boss, and as a self-employed individual, you might be struggling with insurance.Insurance, especially health insurance, can be quite expensive, and although your short stories may be paying the rent and putting food on the table, they may not be bringing in enough cash to pay any additional bills from insurance companies. Since most kinds of insurance are optional, many people choose not to purchase them; however, in the event of a serious health condition, these people wish they h
If nature evolves at the border of chaos and order, then it is wise to think about your day in the same way. 50% of it should be healthy, abundant, happy, relaxed and comfortable. 50% should be challenged, stretched, visioning and tense. Now if you have 6 months of the latter, i.e. pressure, then nature will give you the other half, like it or not, by introducing a stroke, a heart problem, a loss of power or something to cause you balance.
Don’t bring it home begins with the recognition that all your life you will have a balance of chaos and order, at home and at work. You get to choose the chaos if you push yourself into areas you fear, feel uncertain in, feel out of your depth in. And you get to choose your order if you can balance your aspiration for more, more, more with the concept of daily periods of comfort and appreciation.
Now, the reason I say, don’t bring it home, is because you are part of a herd. Your family is your herd, and they are a part of other herds at school and at play. So, when you come in the door, either all pumped up because you achieved something, or all pumped down because you didn’t, then the balance factor becomes a virus. It spreads. One member of your herd reacts one way to you, another reacts differently and suddenly your incompetence at self management at work, becomes a trigger to your own family, and eventually all they touch too.
Sometimes we are so messed up in the way we manage our work that we have to “let our hair down” in big spurts of release. The pub, the gym, the overseas trip to name just 3. But there is a whole industry built around incompetent self management at work. This includes but is not limited to; hospitals, alternative medicine, chiropractors, prostitutes, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes and more. I think, if anti smoking campaigns were serious about reducing the affect of smoking, rather than the number of cigarettes smoked, they’d send this message about healthy self management to all people who work. Balance.
The final crunch comes when we try, through greed, goodwill, ambition, or plain inspiration to live on only one side of the chaos – order border. The masculine side is “of course” the chaos, drive and ambition, the feminine side is the order, nurturing and smelling the roses. We’re all a bit bent out of shape in balancing these two sides of ourselves. But nature doesn’t care. She’s got the bitch in her and if you think you can defy 3 billion years of her function here on earth, well think again.
Healthy self management in business means equal doses of chaos (aspiration, uncertainty, challenge, conflict, confusion, ambition) mixed, on a daily even hourly basis with order (appreciation, comfort, peace, agreement, acceptance, certainty, resignation) – this is the only sustainable business model there is, in tune with nature.
Chaos and order are natures hand. You can’t even escape them on a mountain top in Nepal. Chaos and order are the cells of your body, fighting disease, curing disease. It’s your relationship, confused and then bliss. You can choose to manage yourself in tune with nature by injecting equal quantities of both into your day, or be at the mercy of natures choices for you. Either way, there really is no choice.
My final word is to consider this. Once, to go to work – be in chaos all week and then order all weekend, was a good b
We are to exhort one another to maintain good works until the Lord returns. If we are not careful to mainltain good works the only other option is evil works of which the scripture says to avoid at all cost.Jesus said that if your eye offend thee pluck it out for it is better to enter into the kingdom of God blind than to go into eternal darkness with sight. Note the following scriptures that exhort believers to maintain good works. Titus 3:8 states, "This is a faithful saying, and these things I will that thou affirm constantly, that they which have believed in God might be careful to maintain good works. These things are profitable unto men."Verse 14 states, "And let ours also learn to maintain good works for necessary uses, that they be not unfruitful."Roman 2:28 tells us that in time past God gave people over
Sometimes we are so messed up in the way we manage our work that we have to “let our hair down” in big spurts of release. The pub, the gym, the overseas trip to name just 3. But there is a whole industry built around incompetent self management at work. This includes but is not limited to; hospitals, alternative medicine, chiropractors, prostitutes, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes and more. I think, if anti smoking campaigns were serious about reducing the affect of smoking, rather than the number of cigarettes smoked, they’d send this message about healthy self management to all people who work. Balance.
The final crunch comes when we try, through greed, goodwill, ambition, or plain inspiration to live on only one side of the chaos – order border. The masculine side is “of course” the chaos, drive and ambition, the feminine side is the order, nurturing and smelling the roses. We’re all a bit bent out of shape in balancing these two sides of ourselves. But nature doesn’t care. She’s got the bitch in her and if you think you can defy 3 billion years of her function here on earth, well think again.
Healthy self management in business means equal doses of chaos (aspiration, uncertainty, challenge, conflict, confusion, ambition) mixed, on a daily even hourly basis with order (appreciation, comfort, peace, agreement, acceptance, certainty, resignation) – this is the only sustainable business model there is, in tune with nature.
Chaos and order are natures hand. You can’t even escape them on a mountain top in Nepal. Chaos and order are the cells of your body, fighting disease, curing disease. It’s your relationship, confused and then bliss. You can choose to manage yourself in tune with nature by injecting equal quantities of both into your day, or be at the mercy of natures choices for you. Either way, there really is no choice.
My final word is to consider this. Once, to go to work – be in chaos all week and then order all weekend, was a good b
Many email users think that the use of auto-responders are only to be used when you are out of town. With the speed of the Internet, many people expect a quick response when you are in town. Often you're not in front of your email or can't respond quickly because you're with a client or in a meeting. This is when you need to have your auto-respond turned on, and many savvy agents have it on 24/7, just in case a lead or query comes in via email. It's easy to compose a standard reply, think about what your message says on voice mail and incorporate similar ideas. Keep in mind that the Internet user wants assurances that you'll get back to them promptly.Here is a standard auto response. Thank-you for your message. Your question or request for information is important to me. I return all emails within two hours during busine
Healthy self management in business means equal doses of chaos (aspiration, uncertainty, challenge, conflict, confusion, ambition) mixed, on a daily even hourly basis with order (appreciation, comfort, peace, agreement, acceptance, certainty, resignation) – this is the only sustainable business model there is, in tune with nature.
Chaos and order are natures hand. You can’t even escape them on a mountain top in Nepal. Chaos and order are the cells of your body, fighting disease, curing disease. It’s your relationship, confused and then bliss. You can choose to manage yourself in tune with nature by injecting equal quantities of both into your day, or be at the mercy of natures choices for you. Either way, there really is no choice.
My final word is to consider this. Once, to go to work – be in chaos all week and then order all weekend, was a good balance. The cost was eventual biological breakdown in old age. But now, in our more evolved world with technology advancing at the speed of light, this clumsy concept of work/play is absolutely unacceptable. Even the idea of meditation in the morning and chaos all day is unacceptable and too extreme.
Today, self management needs a more “in the moment” way of balancing chaos and order. Even technologies such as mini ipods allow us to transport ourselves into order during chaotic circumstance. But the real future of chaos/order balance lies in the mind. The ability to choose the balance in the hour, to blend chaos and order is one of the greatest spiritual powers given to us all. To aspire yet, appreciate, to be confused yet take time to see the order, to feel the emotion yet, sit back and feel what is beneath it. This is evolution. The future of self management. You can choose it or be shoved into it, the choice is yours, natures model is fixed.
With Spirit
Chris Walker
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