When Ellen’s feelings and needs did surface, she would tell herself that they weren’t important, that she was strong and could handle not having her feelings cared for and or her needs recognized. She convinced herself that if she just cared enough about others, others would eventually care about her. It never happened.

The inner stress of never attending to her own feelings and needs and always feeling so invisible to others as a result finally took a toll on Ellen’s health. Ellen is now dealing with cancer and finally has to attend to herself.

Many of us have learned to be invisible – to ourselves and to others. What are some of the ways you create invisibility?

• Do you remain silent, not speaking up for yourself, when feeling discounted or unseen by others?

• Do you ignore your own feelings and needs in deference to others?

• Do you go along with what others want, even if you really want something else?

• Do you accept blame for things that you know are not really your responsibility?

• Do you put aside your own opinions and accept the opinions of others to be accepted?

• Do you accept disrespectful behavior from others, finding ways to excuse the behavior?

• Do you pretend everything is okay whe
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  When Ellen’s feelings and needs did surface, she would tell herself that they weren’t important, that she was strong and could handle not having her feelings cared for and or her needs recognized. She convinced herself that if she just cared enough about others, others would eventually care about her. It never happened.

  The inner stress of never attending to her own feelings and needs and always feeling so invisible to others as a result finally took a toll on Ellen’s health. Ellen is now dealing with cancer and finally has to attend to herself.

  Many of us have learned to be invisible – to ourselves and to others. What are some of the ways you create invisibility?

  • Do you remain silent, not speaking up for yourself, when feeling discounted or unseen by others?

  • Do you ignore your own feelings and needs in deference to others?

  • Do you go along with what others want, even if you really want something else?

  • Do you accept blame for things that you know are not really your responsibility?

  • Do you put aside your own opinions and accept the opinions of others to be accepted?

  • Do you accept disrespectful behavior from others, finding ways to excuse the behavior?

  • Do you pretend everything is okay whe
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    The inner stress of never attending to her own feelings and needs and always feeling so invisible to others as a result finally took a toll on Ellen’s health. Ellen is now dealing with cancer and finally has to attend to herself.

    Many of us have learned to be invisible – to ourselves and to others. What are some of the ways you create invisibility?

    • Do you remain silent, not speaking up for yourself, when feeling discounted or unseen by others?

    • Do you ignore your own feelings and needs in deference to others?

    • Do you go along with what others want, even if you really want something else?

    • Do you accept blame for things that you know are not really your responsibility?

    • Do you put aside your own opinions and accept the opinions of others to be accepted?

    • Do you accept disrespectful behavior from others, finding ways to excuse the behavior?

    • Do you pretend everything is okay whe
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      • Do you remain silent, not speaking up for yourself, when feeling discounted or unseen by others?

      • Do you ignore your own feelings and needs in deference to others?

      • Do you go along with what others want, even if you really want something else?

      • Do you accept blame for things that you know are not really your responsibility?

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      • Do you accept blame for things that you know are not really your responsibility?

      • Do you put aside your own opinions and accept the opinions of others to be accepted?

      • Do you accept disrespectful behavior from others, finding ways to excuse the behavior?

      • Do you pretend everything is okay when you are really feeling lonely or sad?

      • Are you conflict avoidant, preferring peace at any cost rather than rock the boat?

      • Are you carrying too much of the load at home or at work, without complaint?

      • Do you pretend to like a food, a movie, a topic of conversation, or sex, rather than run the risk of disapproval or rejection?

      • Do you allow yourself to be violated in any way – physically, emotionally, verbally, sexually – to avoid rejection?

      • Do you allow others’ anger or bullying to control you into doing what they want?

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      How often do you end up feeling unappreciated, unseen, not valued? How much of this is a reflection of how you treat yourself?

      If your own feelings and needs are invisible to yourself, they will end up being invisible to others. It is not realistic to constantly put yourself aside and then expect others to value and respect you. Anytime you tolerate uncaring or disrespectful behavior in others to avoid conflict, you are training others to see you as invisible, to not care about your feelings and needs.

      If you have been allowing yourself to be invisible for a long time, it is a real challenge to start to care about yourself. You need to be willing to go through a difficult period of feelin