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    The Importance of a Name in the Sent from Email Address
    When using an email marketing tool such as Adestra’s Message Focus, you are able to specify exactly what sent address you want the email to be labelled as being broadcasted from. From prevalent industry contacts through to brand names, this gives the marketers the flexibility to use ‘sent from’ addresses that resonate with their audience for improved recognition.This flexibility can be a blessing but also a burden. If you’re choosing to broadcast as if from someone, over the past 4 years the Adestra team have learnt some valuable lessons.If you broadcast from someone:Monitor the inbound email channelMany individuals believe it is from that person and expect to be able to reply to that person and get a response. In many cases, requests for more information or even orders are sent back into the inbound filters rather than through the channels suggested by your communication. Likewise, recipients often reply with personal messages for that person.Keep named email contact in the loopIf you are choosing to send from someone, the chances are their name means something to your audience. To this extent, please ask their permission before sending. In many cases they will want to cast their eye over the email content to ensure no defamatory comments are made and that accuracy is ensured. Do not over-use the same send from addressOne client has been broadcasting from the same contact email address for a number of months. Many of t
    she is still under the delusion that she is a law unto herself.

    With kind regards,

    Michael Hart ----- Original Message -----
    From: Michael
    To: M.P. THOMAS
    Sent: Friday, June 09, 2006 08:34 PM
    Subject: Re: printers

    Dear Meg,

    The following sentence fragment looks like a dependent clause with a comma splice, you’re also missing a conjunction or two.

    "...that would be smashing, Wednesday 'cos I will be at the museum."

    Mixed construction notwithstanding, I assume this is supposed to be something like:

    "...smashing, not Wednesday..." (incomplete verb)

    as opposed to:

    "...smashing. Wednesday cos I will not be at the museum...".

    Whatever the case, I have no immediate plans for anything serious next week, so any time should be fine.

    In addition to looking at your new printer. Here are some other things worth consider

    Use Emails for Viral Marketing
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    The following email messages (printed in reverse chronological order) offer a quick insight into the deleterious effects associated with educational conditioning of primary teachers, based on my personal observations of ***.

    ----- Original Message -----
    Sent: Saturday, June 10, 2006 11:05 PM
    Subject: Re: printers/Meg

    Dear ****,

    I'm beginning to feel that helping Meg is a forlorn hope. I just had a brief encounter with her, she was inspecting Mum’s priory, when I came back from getting coffee with Dave, and well, she seems to have no intention of talking to me on any level other then that of an impertinent school child. How to I dismantle this world she has created in her imagination?

    I wasn’t trying to dominate the discourse in the way in which she does, I was making a polite interjection here & there, but if I said it was black she would have said it was white and would have ignored me.

    I said it, therefore it must be ‘wrong’ and she will then say anything to make it sound ‘wrong’. The logic seems to be one of "break the weakest link", characteristically this is done by changing the context of what I said or by being deliberately obtuse.

    I believe this to be a self defence mechanism, which during ‘normal’ interaction, could be a valid reaction but she seems to be desperately avoiding ANY communication that might may ,in some unspecified way, end in her being seen to be stupid , god forbid. Regardless of the environment, this is a typical Meg style reaction.

    What hope in hell ' s chance of being able to do any good do I really have when the result is that I wish I hadn’t bothered. I get this feeling every time I attempt any level of communication with her, except in a state of affairs in which she wants something. :-)

    With kind regards,

    Michael Hart

    ----- Original Message -----
    To: Michael
    Sent: Saturday, June 10, 2006 01:17 PM
    Subject: Re: printers/Meg

    Michael

    Thanks for keeping me in the loop

    I guess the good news is, Is that she is trying to reach you in her own way but as an ex school teacher I can only assume she is having difficulty like most of them do

    However you did make me chuckle with the correction of Teachers grammer !!!!!

    and you were kind with your last sentance " .......with grace and beauty. Its good to see you can rise above it and someone has to be the grown up one and I'm pleased to see it is you

    Best regards

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: Muchael
    Sent: Saturday, June 10, 2006 9:06 AM
    Subject: Fw: printers/Meg

    Dear ****,

    Below is my reply to an email I received from Meg yesterday, needless to say, I'm not overly impressed! Note that I can’t reasonably see anything less than 12pt, she is well aware of my sight issues but has selected a serif typeface in 10pt, (the worst possible thing you can do)!

    Why can’t she just get over her ego instead of making poor pretenses, I’ve given her several opportunities to do something, now two weeks later, she only now makes an effort and then only after direct instruction!

    Why is it that I make the effort, she makes things needlessly difficult, but I’m expected to forgive/forget her antisocial behavior/recklessness/inferiority complex!

    That said, if she can accept me as an equal, and not just because she wants/needs something & I’m not going to just take her word for it (I now assume everything she says is a lie until proven otherwise), I don’t see any problems, but as evidenced by this sign business, she is still under the delusion that she is a law unto herself.

    With kind regards,

    Michael Hart

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: Michael
    To: M.P. THOMAS
    Sent: Friday, June 09, 2006 08:34 PM
    Subject: Re: printers

    Dear Meg,

    The following sentence fragment looks like a dependent clause with a comma splice, you’re also missing a conjunction or two.

    "...that would be smashing, Wednesday 'cos I will be at the museum."

    Mixed construction notwithstanding, I assume this is supposed to be something like:

    "...smashing, not Wednesday..." (incomplete verb)

    as opposed to:

    "...smashing. Wednesday cos I will not be at the museum...".

    Whatever the case, I have no immediate plans for anything serious next week, so any time should be fine.

    In addition to looking at your new printer. Here are some other things worth considera

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    white and would have ignored me.

    I said it, therefore it must be ‘wrong’ and she will then say anything to make it sound ‘wrong’. The logic seems to be one of "break the weakest link", characteristically this is done by changing the context of what I said or by being deliberately obtuse.

    I believe this to be a self defence mechanism, which during ‘normal’ interaction, could be a valid reaction but she seems to be desperately avoiding ANY communication that might may ,in some unspecified way, end in her being seen to be stupid , god forbid. Regardless of the environment, this is a typical Meg style reaction.

    What hope in hell ' s chance of being able to do any good do I really have when the result is that I wish I hadn’t bothered. I get this feeling every time I attempt any level of communication with her, except in a state of affairs in which she wants something. :-)

    With kind regards,

    Michael Hart

    ----- Original Message -----
    To: Michael
    Sent: Saturday, June 10, 2006 01:17 PM
    Subject: Re: printers/Meg

    Michael

    Thanks for keeping me in the loop

    I guess the good news is, Is that she is trying to reach you in her own way but as an ex school teacher I can only assume she is having difficulty like most of them do

    However you did make me chuckle with the correction of Teachers grammer !!!!!

    and you were kind with your last sentance " .......with grace and beauty. Its good to see you can rise above it and someone has to be the grown up one and I'm pleased to see it is you

    Best regards

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: Muchael
    Sent: Saturday, June 10, 2006 9:06 AM
    Subject: Fw: printers/Meg

    Dear ****,

    Below is my reply to an email I received from Meg yesterday, needless to say, I'm not overly impressed! Note that I can’t reasonably see anything less than 12pt, she is well aware of my sight issues but has selected a serif typeface in 10pt, (the worst possible thing you can do)!

    Why can’t she just get over her ego instead of making poor pretenses, I’ve given her several opportunities to do something, now two weeks later, she only now makes an effort and then only after direct instruction!

    Why is it that I make the effort, she makes things needlessly difficult, but I’m expected to forgive/forget her antisocial behavior/recklessness/inferiority complex!

    That said, if she can accept me as an equal, and not just because she wants/needs something & I’m not going to just take her word for it (I now assume everything she says is a lie until proven otherwise), I don’t see any problems, but as evidenced by this sign business, she is still under the delusion that she is a law unto herself.

    With kind regards,

    Michael Hart

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: Michael
    To: M.P. THOMAS
    Sent: Friday, June 09, 2006 08:34 PM
    Subject: Re: printers

    Dear Meg,

    The following sentence fragment looks like a dependent clause with a comma splice, you’re also missing a conjunction or two.

    "...that would be smashing, Wednesday 'cos I will be at the museum."

    Mixed construction notwithstanding, I assume this is supposed to be something like:

    "...smashing, not Wednesday..." (incomplete verb)

    as opposed to:

    "...smashing. Wednesday cos I will not be at the museum...".

    Whatever the case, I have no immediate plans for anything serious next week, so any time should be fine.

    In addition to looking at your new printer. Here are some other things worth consider

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    >With kind regards,

    Michael Hart

    ----- Original Message -----
    To: Michael
    Sent: Saturday, June 10, 2006 01:17 PM
    Subject: Re: printers/Meg

    Michael

    Thanks for keeping me in the loop

    I guess the good news is, Is that she is trying to reach you in her own way but as an ex school teacher I can only assume she is having difficulty like most of them do

    However you did make me chuckle with the correction of Teachers grammer !!!!!

    and you were kind with your last sentance " .......with grace and beauty. Its good to see you can rise above it and someone has to be the grown up one and I'm pleased to see it is you

    Best regards

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: Muchael
    Sent: Saturday, June 10, 2006 9:06 AM
    Subject: Fw: printers/Meg

    Dear ****,

    Below is my reply to an email I received from Meg yesterday, needless to say, I'm not overly impressed! Note that I can’t reasonably see anything less than 12pt, she is well aware of my sight issues but has selected a serif typeface in 10pt, (the worst possible thing you can do)!

    Why can’t she just get over her ego instead of making poor pretenses, I’ve given her several opportunities to do something, now two weeks later, she only now makes an effort and then only after direct instruction!

    Why is it that I make the effort, she makes things needlessly difficult, but I’m expected to forgive/forget her antisocial behavior/recklessness/inferiority complex!

    That said, if she can accept me as an equal, and not just because she wants/needs something & I’m not going to just take her word for it (I now assume everything she says is a lie until proven otherwise), I don’t see any problems, but as evidenced by this sign business, she is still under the delusion that she is a law unto herself.

    With kind regards,

    Michael Hart

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: Michael
    To: M.P. THOMAS
    Sent: Friday, June 09, 2006 08:34 PM
    Subject: Re: printers

    Dear Meg,

    The following sentence fragment looks like a dependent clause with a comma splice, you’re also missing a conjunction or two.

    "...that would be smashing, Wednesday 'cos I will be at the museum."

    Mixed construction notwithstanding, I assume this is supposed to be something like:

    "...smashing, not Wednesday..." (incomplete verb)

    as opposed to:

    "...smashing. Wednesday cos I will not be at the museum...".

    Whatever the case, I have no immediate plans for anything serious next week, so any time should be fine.

    In addition to looking at your new printer. Here are some other things worth consider

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    from Meg yesterday, needless to say, I'm not overly impressed! Note that I can’t reasonably see anything less than 12pt, she is well aware of my sight issues but has selected a serif typeface in 10pt, (the worst possible thing you can do)!

    Why can’t she just get over her ego instead of making poor pretenses, I’ve given her several opportunities to do something, now two weeks later, she only now makes an effort and then only after direct instruction!

    Why is it that I make the effort, she makes things needlessly difficult, but I’m expected to forgive/forget her antisocial behavior/recklessness/inferiority complex!

    That said, if she can accept me as an equal, and not just because she wants/needs something & I’m not going to just take her word for it (I now assume everything she says is a lie until proven otherwise), I don’t see any problems, but as evidenced by this sign business, she is still under the delusion that she is a law unto herself.

    With kind regards,

    Michael Hart

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: Michael
    To: M.P. THOMAS
    Sent: Friday, June 09, 2006 08:34 PM
    Subject: Re: printers

    Dear Meg,

    The following sentence fragment looks like a dependent clause with a comma splice, you’re also missing a conjunction or two.

    "...that would be smashing, Wednesday 'cos I will be at the museum."

    Mixed construction notwithstanding, I assume this is supposed to be something like:

    "...smashing, not Wednesday..." (incomplete verb)

    as opposed to:

    "...smashing. Wednesday cos I will not be at the museum...".

    Whatever the case, I have no immediate plans for anything serious next week, so any time should be fine.

    In addition to looking at your new printer. Here are some other things worth consider

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    she is still under the delusion that she is a law unto herself.

    With kind regards,

    Michael Hart

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: Michael
    To: M.P. THOMAS
    Sent: Friday, June 09, 2006 08:34 PM
    Subject: Re: printers

    Dear Meg,

    The following sentence fragment looks like a dependent clause with a comma splice, you’re also missing a conjunction or two.

    "...that would be smashing, Wednesday 'cos I will be at the museum."

    Mixed construction notwithstanding, I assume this is supposed to be something like:

    "...smashing, not Wednesday..." (incomplete verb)

    as opposed to:

    "...smashing. Wednesday cos I will not be at the museum...".

    Whatever the case, I have no immediate plans for anything serious next week, so any time should be fine.

    In addition to looking at your new printer. Here are some other things worth consideration:

    1) Internet connection sharing - Possibly the best way to use your laptop and printer;

    2) Using MS Word functionality - "Worster (sic) and Birmingham canal";

    3) Your Outlook message rules - I wager that you won’t see mail from ‘michaelohart’;

    4) Your WIM responsibilities list - I think your email was coerced;

    I look forward to working with you to create a bit of grace and beauty.

    With kind regards,

    Michael Hart

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: M.P. THOMAS
    To: Michael
    Sent: Friday, May 26, 2006 05:28 PM
    Subject: printers

    Dear Michael

    I haven't forgotten your kind offer to show me what my new printer can do, but things have been a little hectic this last week. If you can come round one day next week that would be smashing, Wednesday 'cos I will be at the museum.

    Meg

    ----- Original Message -----
    From: M.O.Hart
    To: ***
    Subject: Last recourse of the desperate.

    Dear ***,

    It seems that what you believe is of little consequence, the fact is that I have a better degree that you, and I wrote about your behavioural management issues. As a direct result, an educational psychologist carrying out a programme of research, wrote back confirming what I believed to be true.

    Well, he got back to me, after I annotated and published your "reply" (below), but I’m not going to tell you what he wrote. It included some interesting phraseology such as "last recourse of the desperate". He is going to use all this in his thesis as "anecdotal evidence based on others' personal observations".

    This was written in ink, in the top margin of the following hand delivered reply, "I am writing you a hand reply as the computer would not send this".

    Dear Michael

    I find your discussion of my supposed cute (awful word) inferiority complex in e-mails an infringement of my privacy. I also wonder if you equate modesty with inferiority. And when I saw the comments by an Ed Psych

    I'm afraid my credulity (sig) was seriously undermined. I have had dealings with many Ed. Pcshs (sig) over the years and in that time I only met two who had any connection with reality.

    I must also add that I don't know where he found his subjects, I assume it was in the plural, but in his findings I don't recognise any of the hundreds of teachers I have worked with and met over the last thirty years.

    The language above is interesting:
    1) "The computer would not send this": I'm not overly impressed, surely a case of a poor workwoman blaming her tools in a laughable attempt to refute responsibility.

    2) "Cute (awful word)": This is a classic avoidance tactic, to dodge conversation, where given the choice between dealing with a problem and ignoring it, a typical response is to answer any side issue and refuseing to acknowledge the real problem, thus creating the illusion of action.

    3) "Infringement of my privacy": Email is not necessarily subject to protection by intellectual property rights. Even if this were not the case (the content in question is not hers to control), there are exceptions that allow use of copyrighted works of others because they are not considered copying. For example, reproduction of others' work where it is felt that some more important social principles would be violated otherwise.

    4) "My credulity (sig) was seriously undermined": This is where the real problem arises, a case of "do as I say, not as I do". How many times have we all heard that expression, never a particularly inspiring credo, this doesn

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