them, it would be showing them that they mean a lot to you to include them in the decision. The same goes for the best man and groomsmen.

For the wedding reception, you can choose foods that are favorites of yours and the groom's. If you like Mexican or Italian, then have the dishes you espe

Want to be completely unique with your wedding? Why not design your wedding completely according to what you want. You can do it. There is nothing that says you have the have the same kind of wedding as everybody else. All it takes is your imagination and, of course, to include the groom and get his input. This is his wedding, too, you know. Here are some tips that will help.

First, sit down together and talk about things that are special to the both of you that you want to incorporate into the wedding ceremony and reception. Is there a special place you would like to have the wedding? A special person to officiate? Talk about your vows. So, you want to use parts of the traditional vows or completely write vows that are unique to you and your groom. You can write the entire ceremony from start to finish to show how unique a couple you are.

Then you will want to consider what your wedding party will wear. Maybe you would like to design your wedding gown, too. The maid of honor and bridesmaids' gowns as well. You might have the bridesmaids and the maid of honor give you some input here. They might have some good ideas that you will like. Since they will be wearing them, it would be showing them that they mean a lot to you to include them in the decision. The same goes for the best man and groomsmen.

For the wedding reception, you can choose foods that are favorites of yours and the groom's. If you like Mexican or Italian, then have the dishes you espec

is input. This is his wedding, too, you know. Here are some tips that will help.

First, sit down together and talk about things that are special to the both of you that you want to incorporate into the wedding ceremony and reception. Is there a special place you would like to have the wedding? A special person to officiate? Talk about your vows. So, you want to use parts of the traditional vows or completely write vows that are unique to you and your groom. You can write the entire ceremony from start to finish to show how unique a couple you are.

Then you will want to consider what your wedding party will wear. Maybe you would like to design your wedding gown, too. The maid of honor and bridesmaids' gowns as well. You might have the bridesmaids and the maid of honor give you some input here. They might have some good ideas that you will like. Since they will be wearing them, it would be showing them that they mean a lot to you to include them in the decision. The same goes for the best man and groomsmen.

For the wedding reception, you can choose foods that are favorites of yours and the groom's. If you like Mexican or Italian, then have the dishes you espe

g? A special person to officiate? Talk about your vows. So, you want to use parts of the traditional vows or completely write vows that are unique to you and your groom. You can write the entire ceremony from start to finish to show how unique a couple you are.

Then you will want to consider what your wedding party will wear. Maybe you would like to design your wedding gown, too. The maid of honor and bridesmaids' gowns as well. You might have the bridesmaids and the maid of honor give you some input here. They might have some good ideas that you will like. Since they will be wearing them, it would be showing them that they mean a lot to you to include them in the decision. The same goes for the best man and groomsmen.

For the wedding reception, you can choose foods that are favorites of yours and the groom's. If you like Mexican or Italian, then have the dishes you espe

what your wedding party will wear. Maybe you would like to design your wedding gown, too. The maid of honor and bridesmaids' gowns as well. You might have the bridesmaids and the maid of honor give you some input here. They might have some good ideas that you will like. Since they will be wearing them, it would be showing them that they mean a lot to you to include them in the decision. The same goes for the best man and groomsmen.

For the wedding reception, you can choose foods that are favorites of yours and the groom's. If you like Mexican or Italian, then have the dishes you espe

them, it would be showing them that they mean a lot to you to include them in the decision. The same goes for the best man and groomsmen.

For the wedding reception, you can choose foods that are favorites of yours and the groom's. If you like Mexican or Italian, then have the dishes you especially like. Maybe you love curry. You could even have a few different dishes so guests can have a bit of choice.

Today, the wedding cake doesn't have to be traditional at all. If you like cheesecake, then choose that. Cupcakes have also made the wedding scene of late. If rum cake is your favorite, why not? It doesn't even have to be cake, it can be pie or some other kind of dessert. Whatever is your choice, you can have it.

Music is another area you can choose to be very different. You can walk down the aisle to 'Unchained Melody' if you want. Or, choose Mozart or Ravel's Bolero. The choice is wide open. You don't have to stick with tradition if you don't want to.

Flowers can be very different as well. The kind of wedding flowers and the way they are arranged can be a product of your imagination. You can even use sagebrush. It is surprising how beautiful and fragrant it can be. If you want to use wildflowers and have ready access to them, you can pick them just before the wedding. They wilt quickly, so you do want to make sure they are not picked too long before the ceremony.

Finally, however you decide to have your nuptials, just remember one thing