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r marriage too easily. If your physical health were at stake, would you only seek information about a life-threatening illness from one source? Would you say "I went to the doctor and he had me undergo radiation, but that didn't help. Now he wants me to go through chemo, but frankly, I don't think the guy knows what he's doing." But for some reason people consider it reasonable to say "We saw a marriage counselor and it didn't help. So I'm moving out."

Many marriage therap

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Here are four common reasons that marriage counseling often fails.

People, even counselors, feel both spouses MUST attend. I once saw a counselor and explained to her that despite horrible arguments, my husband refused to see a counselor. "Well," she said. "You just need to say that this is something very important to you. He has a problem managing his anger and if he cares about you, he'll do this for you. Frankly, if he isn't willing to do something so important to you, then is this really a relationship that you want to be in?" Bad Advice!

Several years later I dragged my husband (yes, same husband) to a counselor. He basically went, because I "made him" and sat hostile and sullen through a not-surprisingly unproductive counseling session. I realized he had a huge vested interest in showing me that counseling would not help. All I had done by coercing him into going was extend the power struggle into another area of our life.

Counseling or books about marriage need only one spouse who is interested in changing their marriage to work.

People only try one counselor. I had a very good friend who explained that when you are choosing a counselor, you are hiring someone. An effective hiring process would include getting recommendations and choosing two or three that you considered strong candidates. Then you would interview each of them. He suggested that I choose at least two counselors and see each for at least one session before deciding who I wanted to see. This is great advice and is true whether you are seeing a counselor for marriage problems, problems with your children, depression, etc.

If your spouse is not interested in participating in counseling and your primary goal for counseling is improving your marriage, discuss this with the counselor before the first appointment and ask whether they feel they can help you with that situation.

People give up on their marriage too easily. If your physical health were at stake, would you only seek information about a life-threatening illness from one source? Would you say "I went to the doctor and he had me undergo radiation, but that didn't help. Now he wants me to go through chemo, but frankly, I don't think the guy knows what he's doing." But for some reason people consider it reasonable to say "We saw a marriage counselor and it didn't help. So I'm moving out."

Many marriage therapi
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is really a relationship that you want to be in?" Bad Advice!

Several years later I dragged my husband (yes, same husband) to a counselor. He basically went, because I "made him" and sat hostile and sullen through a not-surprisingly unproductive counseling session. I realized he had a huge vested interest in showing me that counseling would not help. All I had done by coercing him into going was extend the power struggle into another area of our life.

Counseling or books about marriage need only one spouse who is interested in changing their marriage to work.

People only try one counselor. I had a very good friend who explained that when you are choosing a counselor, you are hiring someone. An effective hiring process would include getting recommendations and choosing two or three that you considered strong candidates. Then you would interview each of them. He suggested that I choose at least two counselors and see each for at least one session before deciding who I wanted to see. This is great advice and is true whether you are seeing a counselor for marriage problems, problems with your children, depression, etc.

If your spouse is not interested in participating in counseling and your primary goal for counseling is improving your marriage, discuss this with the counselor before the first appointment and ask whether they feel they can help you with that situation.

People give up on their marriage too easily. If your physical health were at stake, would you only seek information about a life-threatening illness from one source? Would you say "I went to the doctor and he had me undergo radiation, but that didn't help. Now he wants me to go through chemo, but frankly, I don't think the guy knows what he's doing." But for some reason people consider it reasonable to say "We saw a marriage counselor and it didn't help. So I'm moving out."

Many marriage therap
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g or books about marriage need only one spouse who is interested in changing their marriage to work.

People only try one counselor. I had a very good friend who explained that when you are choosing a counselor, you are hiring someone. An effective hiring process would include getting recommendations and choosing two or three that you considered strong candidates. Then you would interview each of them. He suggested that I choose at least two counselors and see each for at least one session before deciding who I wanted to see. This is great advice and is true whether you are seeing a counselor for marriage problems, problems with your children, depression, etc.

If your spouse is not interested in participating in counseling and your primary goal for counseling is improving your marriage, discuss this with the counselor before the first appointment and ask whether they feel they can help you with that situation.

People give up on their marriage too easily. If your physical health were at stake, would you only seek information about a life-threatening illness from one source? Would you say "I went to the doctor and he had me undergo radiation, but that didn't help. Now he wants me to go through chemo, but frankly, I don't think the guy knows what he's doing." But for some reason people consider it reasonable to say "We saw a marriage counselor and it didn't help. So I'm moving out."

Many marriage therap
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least one session before deciding who I wanted to see. This is great advice and is true whether you are seeing a counselor for marriage problems, problems with your children, depression, etc.

If your spouse is not interested in participating in counseling and your primary goal for counseling is improving your marriage, discuss this with the counselor before the first appointment and ask whether they feel they can help you with that situation.

People give up on their marriage too easily. If your physical health were at stake, would you only seek information about a life-threatening illness from one source? Would you say "I went to the doctor and he had me undergo radiation, but that didn't help. Now he wants me to go through chemo, but frankly, I don't think the guy knows what he's doing." But for some reason people consider it reasonable to say "We saw a marriage counselor and it didn't help. So I'm moving out."

Many marriage therap
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r marriage too easily. If your physical health were at stake, would you only seek information about a life-threatening illness from one source? Would you say "I went to the doctor and he had me undergo radiation, but that didn't help. Now he wants me to go through chemo, but frankly, I don't think the guy knows what he's doing." But for some reason people consider it reasonable to say "We saw a marriage counselor and it didn't help. So I'm moving out."

Many marriage therapists are general therapists who also treat couples. Their training is often geared to maximizing individual's happiness and while sometimes that is enough to improve a marriage, there are also situations where this is not enough to save the marriage.

How to Avoid These Pitfalls Your relationship has problems and you want to get some help improving it either by seeing a counselor or reading a book. Tell your spouse that you want to work on your marriage, that you care about them and wish you both were happier. Encourage them to participate with you in working on the problems in your marriage. BUT, if they decline your invitation, don't hesitate. Get help yourself. The idea that both partners must seek marital advice together is wrong, wrong, wrong. I've written brief reviews of three books that I've personally found helpful. All three authors will attest and have many success stories which illustrate that one spouse can change the situation no matter how disinterested the other spouse might seem.

Shop around for marital advice. Being happily married is usually a learned skill. Sure a few people have the gift naturally with no formal training. But then there are the rest of us. If you wanted to learn to play tennis, you might get a set of lessons, then practice what you learned. If at some point in the future you were still dissatisfied with your ability to play tennis, you probably wouldn't curse that those previous tennis lessons were a waste of money and quit playing forever. If you still loved the game, hopefully you would instead evaluate whether the same instructor or another could help you the most and get some more lessons.

Good luck on your search for marriage advice. Know that you aren't alone in your frustration and you don't need to feel helpless and without ideas. You are to be commended for making the effort.

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