ren and what they may accomplish, and what career steps we will climb. And, occasionally, we fantasize about what sex would be like with our attractive doctor, the sales manager down the hall, or forbiWe have our real, everyday life and we have our fantasy life, playing out its details within our own minds. Men fantasize about power and wealth but primarily, throughout their lives, about sex. They see an attractive woman and imagine what it would be like to make it with her. In a solid, warm relationship, there is little likelihood that he will do anything about it but he will always dream.

Female fantasies are more varied and change over time. As teenagers and young women, we imagine the knight in shining armor who will appear out of nowhere and whisk us off into a life of unadulterated bliss. When we meet our partner, we imagine building a life together and fantasize about children, where we'll live, and what things we'll do together.

As we mature, we fantasize about our children and what they may accomplish, and what career steps we will climb. And, occasionally, we fantasize about what sex would be like with our attractive doctor, the sales manager down the hall, or forbi

ee an attractive woman and imagine what it would be like to make it with her. In a solid, warm relationship, there is little likelihood that he will do anything about it but he will always dream.

Female fantasies are more varied and change over time. As teenagers and young women, we imagine the knight in shining armor who will appear out of nowhere and whisk us off into a life of unadulterated bliss. When we meet our partner, we imagine building a life together and fantasize about children, where we'll live, and what things we'll do together.

As we mature, we fantasize about our children and what they may accomplish, and what career steps we will climb. And, occasionally, we fantasize about what sex would be like with our attractive doctor, the sales manager down the hall, or forbi

>Female fantasies are more varied and change over time. As teenagers and young women, we imagine the knight in shining armor who will appear out of nowhere and whisk us off into a life of unadulterated bliss. When we meet our partner, we imagine building a life together and fantasize about children, where we'll live, and what things we'll do together.

As we mature, we fantasize about our children and what they may accomplish, and what career steps we will climb. And, occasionally, we fantasize about what sex would be like with our attractive doctor, the sales manager down the hall, or forbi

bliss. When we meet our partner, we imagine building a life together and fantasize about children, where we'll live, and what things we'll do together.

As we mature, we fantasize about our children and what they may accomplish, and what career steps we will climb. And, occasionally, we fantasize about what sex would be like with our attractive doctor, the sales manager down the hall, or forbi

ren and what they may accomplish, and what career steps we will climb. And, occasionally, we fantasize about what sex would be like with our attractive doctor, the sales manager down the hall, or forbidden sex with a total stranger.

Because our fantasies are so different, it is often difficult to share them, even with the one who is so close to us. The common fantasies of costume sellers and B movies: the French maid in a barely-there apron, the harem dancer, the steamy tropical atmosphere, seldom relate to our private inner visions. If our fantasies differ, which is likely, we can increase our complete involvement in our partner's life by occasionally participating in the other's fantasy. Taking turns in setting the scene allows us to share our inner world in a safe atmosphere where the risk of such deep disclosure is minimized by mutual respect.

Describe your fantasy in depth as if you were the director of a new stage play. You want your partner to see the drama in their mind'