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Casual Articles - The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes You Probably Make With Women - And What To Do About It
It’s a common complaint, an annoying situation, even a man’s worst nightmare.You know what I’m talking about: When a girl you like wants to be "just friends."Aaaaargh! Who wants that? You like this girl, you want intimacy, but all she wants is friendship. How do you turn things around?In short, you have to make a girl REMEMBER you. Whereas guys who are much more than friends are always on a woman’s mind, friends are just…there. There’s no special emotion connected to them. They’re just…friends.So how do you change this?Let’s start with the basics: What do women want in a romance? Well, if you’ve read my previous blog post (and if you haven’t, do it now!), you know that women are looking for STAND-UP GUYS, guys who mean business and don’t take no for an answer. They want a protector, a defender, a man who will always be at their side.Now ask yourself: Is that me?If you’re the kind of guy who avoids conflict, treats women with deference and worship, jumps at the opportunity to listen to her moan…Then you’re a nice guy. You don’t stand up for yourself. You don’t assume leadership. You sit down when a woman wants you to jump up and save her butt!
And guess what?
Bein
Conflict in organizations is not a problem. Well managed conflict contributes to creativity, strategic initiative, more effective systems and communication, stronger workplace relationships and greater commitment to the organization. Organizations shouldn’t attempt to prevent conflict, but should instead focus energy on preventing unresolved or destructive conflict.Left unresolved or escalating destructively, conflict is expensive, both in financial and human terms. Some conflict costs are easily measured, such as legal fees and losses associated with theft and sabotage. Conflict that escalates so far as to damage an organization’s reputation is measurable in terms of lower earnings or diminished market share.The hidden costs of conflict can be more significant to the bottom line and the overall health of the organization. Here are a few of the most common conflict costs that are overlooked by managers:Time and salary loss. Studies over the last decade suggest that between 30% and 40% of a manager’s time is spent dealing with employee conflict and helping employees reach agreement. In a study I conducted in 2000, managers’ time on conflict ranged more commonly
MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A "Nice Guy"
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being
If writing that book you’ve always had in mind tops your list of resolutions or regrets, hiring a writing coach can turn fantasy into reality. Whether you want to write a memoir, a novel, a family history, a biography, a self-help book or a nonfiction treatise, a writing coach can help you organize your thoughts, enrich your work, refine your writing, and encourage you every step of the way. As a result, the pages mount up instead of the frustration.As a writing coach, my clients are:* Professional writers who are tired of soloing. * Aspiring writers who need that extra bump to get published. * First-time writers who need to know how to get started. * Frustrated writers of all levels who need perspective and feedback. * Anyone wanting to discover – or rediscover – the joy of writing.I know how to guide them through the often complex and always taxing book-writing process because I don’t just coach – I write. Books I’ve written range from Julia “Butterfly” Hill’s national best-seller The Legacy of Luna (Harper San Francisco, 2000) to Surviving a Stalker: Everything You Need to Know to Keep Yourself Safe (Marlowe & Company, 2000), a revised edition of my book, To
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Bein
The Xbox 360 was released in 2005 and according to CNET the Xbox360 rates: an 8 for design; 9 for features; and 8 for performance. Users rate PS3 as 7.4 of 10 based on available information.There are techies who root for the Xbox360 and those who firmly believe in the magic of the PS3. Here are reasons why the Xbox360 may win the game war.1. The base line advantage is in the pricing. The Xbox is more affordable than the projected sale price of the two versions of the PS3.2. The Xbox360 has a faithful following among gamers in the US. On the other hand the PS series are popular internationally. Ultimately it is the gamers and developers who will decide which way the vote will swing.3. The games are user-friendly and the facilities for online gaming are great.4. The Xbox360 is a high resolution media hub and windows media extender.5. The Xbox360 makes the fine line between PC and console gaming hairline thin. The Xbox is according to CNet “a high end PC gaming rig fitted into a small box.”6. The 20GB hard drive is compact and emulates the laptop design slim and compact. So in the case of Xbox 360 the keywords are compact and powerful.7. The interface
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Bein
Not long ago, I thought my Panasonic DVD recorder was the best thing since sliced bread. It would allow me to do cool things like watching a program before it had finished recording and skip through commercials in 30-second chunks with the press of a button.My DVD recorder made my old VCR look like an Edsel sitting next to a Ferrari. After I started using the DVD recorder I could no longer bear to put up with the joys of VCR use such as rewinding and the bulky tapes that were practically the size of a brick and required a warehouse to store them in.As much as I love my DVD recorder it does not get much use these days. That’s because I have upgraded to a DVR, or Digital Video Recorder. Now it’s the DVD recorder’s turn to look like an Edsel!I recently decided to take the plunge and take my television viewing experience to the next level. Since I’ve been a very satisfied Dish Network customer almost as long as the company has been around, it was an easy decision for me to upgrade my old Dish Network system to a brand-new HD-capable system.After taking delivery of my new Hitachi 51-inch HDTV set, I ordered my Dish Network upgrade and waited anxiously for the date of installation.<
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Bein
My parents just had their 50th wedding anniversary last weekend. It was a treat to see fraternal cousins that I hadn’t seen in over 20 years. We all had children and so we ask the usual questions. It turned out that my cousin had a daughter who had graduated medical school“What field of medicine will she be practicing?”, I inquired.“Well, she has her doctorate.” “She’s a doctor.” My cousin replied.“I understand she is a medical doctor, but what will be her specialty?” “What is her area of expertise?” I asked.After a pretty extensive conversation, I discovered that my cousin was not really sure. He was sure of the thousands of dollars he had invested in his daughter’s education, but had no idea what his daughter was really going to be doing for a living nor did he have his daughter’s business card or clinic information available.This event had an excessive attendance of seniors. If his daughters’ area of expertise had been geriatrics, there were 45 or 50 potential new clients eating buffet right in front of us. What a missed opportunity for a new doctor possibly looking for a client base.You can consider it a big a mistake when you underestimate the importance of
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince Her To Like You"
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you...
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