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Casual Articles - Trust Starts with You
Thousand of people each day become the victim of identity theft. It is a crime that will require lots of time and money to fix if you become a victim. The best cure is preventing it in the first place. There are a few very effective tips to help you never become the victim of identity theft.Shred Everything- Every credit card advertisements you receive in the mail should be shredded. But they are not the only things you should shred. Anything that has your name and address on it should also be shredded. Don't forget to shred the labels on magazines you receive, they often have your account numbers p
Here is the short and sweet system. Get some paper and your bills for the last 4 months. Write in a column what you spent and add it up, month to month. Go find your income for the last 4 months. Compare those numbers, how’s it look?If you are like the other 80% of the population the out-flow is bigger than the in-flow. Now for the management program, step one decide if you want to be broke your whole life and die an average 25 years younger than you need to. Or, do some mental workout and get into a program to regain the wealth muscles. What is it going to be? If you are happy with debt, go back to
“I never feel like I can trust my husband (or wife).”
It is very common for me, in my work as a counselor, to hear the above statements. Trust issues abound in relationships. However, resolving trust issues is not about getting another person to be trustworthy. It’s about you become a trustworthy person with yourself and learning to trust yourself.
BECOMING TRUSTWORTHY WITH YOURSELF
How often do you promise yourself you are going to do something and then don’t do it? For example, we often promise ourselves to:
- Get the taxes done on time.
- Catch up on email, phone calls, and other correspondence.
- Eat better.
- Drink less alcohol.
- Stop reckless spending, gambling, or whatever puts us in financial distress.
- Stop getting angry.
- Stop giving ourselves up.
- Lose weight.
- Get more exercise.
- Get more sleep (or sleep less).
- Get together with friends.
- Clean up the house, or clean up the clutter.
- Be on time.
- Watch less TV or spend less time on the computer.
- Meditate or pray.
- Take time for ourselves.
- Finish a project.
- And so on…..
If you promise yourself you will do something and then you don’t do it, you are not being trustworthy with yourself. This would be like promising a child something and then not doing it. Eventually the child would learn not to trust you. The same applies with your Child within. If you promise yourself – your Inner Child – that you will take care
"Imagination is the beginning of creation. You imagine what you desire; you will what you imagine, and at last you create what you will." — George Bernard Shaw, 19th century Irish playwright, critic, and social reformer• Visioning is sometimes an innate natural skill just like leadership sometimes is. And the moon sometimes blocks out the sun — but not very often. Most people have had to consciously, and with great effort, continually work to strengthen their visioning. Visionary leaders are seldom born that way. Nor are they necessarily charismatic. They have had to work at making visioning habitua
BECOMING TRUSTWORTHY WITH YOURSELF
How often do you promise yourself you are going to do something and then don’t do it? For example, we often promise ourselves to:
- Get the taxes done on time.
- Catch up on email, phone calls, and other correspondence.
- Eat better.
- Drink less alcohol.
- Stop reckless spending, gambling, or whatever puts us in financial distress.
- Stop getting angry.
- Stop giving ourselves up.
- Lose weight.
- Get more exercise.
- Get more sleep (or sleep less).
- Get together with friends.
- Clean up the house, or clean up the clutter.
- Be on time.
- Watch less TV or spend less time on the computer.
- Meditate or pray.
- Take time for ourselves.
- Finish a project.
- And so on…..
If you promise yourself you will do something and then you don’t do it, you are not being trustworthy with yourself. This would be like promising a child something and then not doing it. Eventually the child would learn not to trust you. The same applies with your Child within. If you promise yourself – your Inner Child – that you will take care
It was not very long ago that the only place that thought about kids were the big fast food chains, and even then limited by offering a small toy with the purchase of a hamburger. These days if you don’t create an amazing experience for the twelve and under demographic you will lose their vote!!! So let’s look at a few ideas to get them on side in part 3 of this article:12. Have family nightsThese are a great idea for a slow Monday or Tuesday nights. You could show family TV shows or movies or even cartoons. You can have special discounts on adult meals, and provide other forms of entertainme
If you promise yourself you will do something and then you don’t do it, you are not being trustworthy with yourself. This would be like promising a child something and then not doing it. Eventually the child would learn not to trust you. The same applies with your Child within. If you promise yourself – your Inner Child – that you will take care
It is difficult to run a profitable store anywhere. The difficulty level rises, if the retail store is a downtown area. There are just more issues to deal with a downtown store.Most downtown areas have limited parking especially in front of a store. This is harmful especially in bad weather. It is also a problem on the busiest days.Many downtowns have a greater percentage of vacancies than other retail areas. Many of the buildings are older and more difficult to keep than in the newer shopping areas.What should a merchant do to be successful? Here are just a few things to increase the
If you promise yourself you will do something and then you don’t do it, you are not being trustworthy with yourself. This would be like promising a child something and then not doing it. Eventually the child would learn not to trust you. The same applies with your Child within. If you promise yourself – your Inner Child – that you will take care
With soaring mountain ranges, New Hampshire is often called the Switzerland of America. Fortunately, New Hampshire real estate prices compare favorably to Switzerland.New HampshireNew Hampshire is a state with beautiful scenery that takes on the full effect of each season of the year. Spring and summer are tailor made for fishing, hiking and water sports along the state coastline. Fall is an explosion of color as the leaves turn, while winter is the time to hit the slopes. The overall contour of the state is mountainous in the north; fields, lakes and forest in the central area; and little vi
TRUSTING YOURSELF
Many of us grew up with parents who did not trust our feelings and perceptions. We might have been told that what we felt and what we experienced was wrong.
Mother: Put on a sweater. It’s cold outside.
Child: I’m not cold.
Mother: You’re just a child. What do you know? Put on a sweater.
Mother: Go give your Uncle Sam a kiss.
Child: No, I don’t like Uncle Sam. He’s creepy.
Mother: Of course you like Uncle Sam. Now go give him a kiss.
Child: My teacher is really mean to me.
Father: I’m sure your teacher is very nice. If your teacher is mean to you, it must be your fault.
Child: Daddy, why are you angry at me?
Father: I’m not angry.
After a while, we learn to discount and mistrust our feelings and perceptions. We learn to give our authority away to our parents and other adults, deciding tha
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