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Casual Articles - Are You Bigger Than Your Relationship Problems?
Introducing new products or services, bringing new people on board, developing a new process or procedure, installing new equipment, change seems to be the one constant in business today and change always seems to drive a need for training.In conducting training needs analysis at any level, we need to understand that training may not be the solution, at least not the whole solution. Training is normally employed with the expectation of changing individual performance. Wh
I have an example of this principle from learning to kayak. When I was a beginner I was clumsy enough to get flipped over even on flat water, and being upside down, locked in my kayak...
THAT WAS A PROBLEM.
I would have to pull my skirt (release the water tight gasket around the cockpit) and swim to shore.
Now, because I have taken lessons, practiced whenever possible and focused on developing these skills, I can go through level 3 and 4 rapids, (level 5 is the top of the scale) get flipped over and just fl
If you've been looking for a way to generate quality mortgage, real estate, insurance or real-estate-related services leads, then perhaps you've considered exhibiting at a Real Estate Wealth Expo or using other different advertising mediums. In truth, there are many ways for you to generate good leads – each with its pros and cons. Maybe you've considered running an ad on TV or the radio. Perhaps, even, you've considered doing a mass mailing.Below is a short comparison li
Doug, who works for Harv Eker and Peak Potentials Training, was a great speaker. He had come to talk about money... and how it affects every part of your life, especially your primary relationship.
If any of you are interested in mastering your finances and want to learn how to get money to work for you... versus you having to work for money... contact our office (see contact information at end of letter).
Because I am part of the 'ambassador program' with Peak Potential Trainings, we can get you in to the next Millionaire Mind Intensive three-day seminar at a ridiculously low price (and yes that is a shameless plug... GO). It is well worth your weekend!
Anyway, the point of this article is something Doug said midway through the evening.
He drew a chart on the board - two parrell veriticles lines with me written at the top of the one to the left and 'my problem' written above the one to the right.
He then drew a number 2 about 2/10 of the way up my line and a 5 half way up the one to the right.
What he said was if you had a problem that was a level 5 on a scale of 1 -10 and your skill level was a 2 in that area... then, comparatively speaking, that would be a big, and possibly overwhelming, problem. It would be an end-of-the-relationship type problem... a going-to-kick-your-butt type problem.
What he said next was that to change the situation all you had to do was to decide... decide that you will do whatever it takes - study, learn, practice, get guidance -- until your skill level is an 8. Then level 5 problems are no longer a problem!
If you apply this to relationship and communication skills like conflict resolution... or... clearing up misunderstandings... if you develop your skill level to a 7 or an 8...
Then a problem that used to stop you in your tracks and threatened to destroy your relationship will no longer even be a problem. It will be just a challenge, or even an opportunity to create more love and understanding.
I have an example of this principle from learning to kayak. When I was a beginner I was clumsy enough to get flipped over even on flat water, and being upside down, locked in my kayak...
THAT WAS A PROBLEM.
I would have to pull my skirt (release the water tight gasket around the cockpit) and swim to shore.
Now, because I have taken lessons, practiced whenever possible and focused on developing these skills, I can go through level 3 and 4 rapids, (level 5 is the top of the scale) get flipped over and just fli
Medicare benefits are, inevitably, something we must all become familiar with as we get closer to retirement age. However, what exactly is medicare? When did it begin? And what is its purpose? Here is a brief outline of the federal government's medicare program, including its history and the rationale for its existence.Medicare came into existence in 1965. It was created as one of the component parts of then-President Lyndon B. Johnson's "Great Society" initiative. The pr
Because I am part of the 'ambassador program' with Peak Potential Trainings, we can get you in to the next Millionaire Mind Intensive three-day seminar at a ridiculously low price (and yes that is a shameless plug... GO). It is well worth your weekend!
Anyway, the point of this article is something Doug said midway through the evening.
He drew a chart on the board - two parrell veriticles lines with me written at the top of the one to the left and 'my problem' written above the one to the right.
He then drew a number 2 about 2/10 of the way up my line and a 5 half way up the one to the right.
What he said was if you had a problem that was a level 5 on a scale of 1 -10 and your skill level was a 2 in that area... then, comparatively speaking, that would be a big, and possibly overwhelming, problem. It would be an end-of-the-relationship type problem... a going-to-kick-your-butt type problem.
What he said next was that to change the situation all you had to do was to decide... decide that you will do whatever it takes - study, learn, practice, get guidance -- until your skill level is an 8. Then level 5 problems are no longer a problem!
If you apply this to relationship and communication skills like conflict resolution... or... clearing up misunderstandings... if you develop your skill level to a 7 or an 8...
Then a problem that used to stop you in your tracks and threatened to destroy your relationship will no longer even be a problem. It will be just a challenge, or even an opportunity to create more love and understanding.
I have an example of this principle from learning to kayak. When I was a beginner I was clumsy enough to get flipped over even on flat water, and being upside down, locked in my kayak...
THAT WAS A PROBLEM.
I would have to pull my skirt (release the water tight gasket around the cockpit) and swim to shore.
Now, because I have taken lessons, practiced whenever possible and focused on developing these skills, I can go through level 3 and 4 rapids, (level 5 is the top of the scale) get flipped over and just fl
Conflict diamonds are called such because these diamonds came from conflict-ridden countries that suffer from terrorism and human right abuses. Conflict diamond are also otherwise known as blood diamonds, because many people have died or have been killed by several groups that want to control the diamond trade in Africa. The money from conflict diamonds is also used to fund illegal activities for military and terrorist groups in different African countries such as Angola, Sier
He then drew a number 2 about 2/10 of the way up my line and a 5 half way up the one to the right.
What he said was if you had a problem that was a level 5 on a scale of 1 -10 and your skill level was a 2 in that area... then, comparatively speaking, that would be a big, and possibly overwhelming, problem. It would be an end-of-the-relationship type problem... a going-to-kick-your-butt type problem.
What he said next was that to change the situation all you had to do was to decide... decide that you will do whatever it takes - study, learn, practice, get guidance -- until your skill level is an 8. Then level 5 problems are no longer a problem!
If you apply this to relationship and communication skills like conflict resolution... or... clearing up misunderstandings... if you develop your skill level to a 7 or an 8...
Then a problem that used to stop you in your tracks and threatened to destroy your relationship will no longer even be a problem. It will be just a challenge, or even an opportunity to create more love and understanding.
I have an example of this principle from learning to kayak. When I was a beginner I was clumsy enough to get flipped over even on flat water, and being upside down, locked in my kayak...
THAT WAS A PROBLEM.
I would have to pull my skirt (release the water tight gasket around the cockpit) and swim to shore.
Now, because I have taken lessons, practiced whenever possible and focused on developing these skills, I can go through level 3 and 4 rapids, (level 5 is the top of the scale) get flipped over and just fl
Picture this. You develop some product or service, spend countless hours making sure everything is just right, set up a beautiful web site, make sure the ecommerce end is secure, and then release what you know will be of utmost benefit to others.Do you really know this? How do you know it? Gut feeling? Someone else told you so?In the world of online ventures, researching the currently defined marketplace can be even more important than in the offline world. Why? Th
If you apply this to relationship and communication skills like conflict resolution... or... clearing up misunderstandings... if you develop your skill level to a 7 or an 8...
Then a problem that used to stop you in your tracks and threatened to destroy your relationship will no longer even be a problem. It will be just a challenge, or even an opportunity to create more love and understanding.
I have an example of this principle from learning to kayak. When I was a beginner I was clumsy enough to get flipped over even on flat water, and being upside down, locked in my kayak...
THAT WAS A PROBLEM.
I would have to pull my skirt (release the water tight gasket around the cockpit) and swim to shore.
Now, because I have taken lessons, practiced whenever possible and focused on developing these skills, I can go through level 3 and 4 rapids, (level 5 is the top of the scale) get flipped over and just fl
In the past, if you said the word “plan” to me, I would bolt and run. I’m the “creative type,” a former ballet dancer and choreographer—I’m terrible with details. When I was dancing professionally, all the details were taken care of; all I had to do was show up and dance. Even when I was choreographing, as long as I met my deadline for when the dance needed to be complete, I could go with the moment, go with the impulse and see where the dance led.A hearty dose of reality
I have an example of this principle from learning to kayak. When I was a beginner I was clumsy enough to get flipped over even on flat water, and being upside down, locked in my kayak...
THAT WAS A PROBLEM.
I would have to pull my skirt (release the water tight gasket around the cockpit) and swim to shore.
Now, because I have taken lessons, practiced whenever possible and focused on developing these skills, I can go through level 3 and 4 rapids, (level 5 is the top of the scale) get flipped over and just flip myself right back up...
NO PROBLEM! at least most of the time.
If you are ready for things like creating intimacy and understanding, resolving conflict quickly and easily, dealing with past history and each other's baggage to be NO PROBLEM, then take a weekend and learn these skills.
Transform the way you communicate and you can transform your relationship with anyone... including yourself.
Learn to deal with important, emotional issues without taking it personally or making it personal. Learn how to deal with the "HOT' issues without attacking or defending.
Is learning how to handle problems... a problem? Is it a level 2, a 5 or an 8 problem? What are you letting get in the way of the relationship of your dreams?
When you stretch and grow, when you take on the challenges and become more than the problem,... Life will become more enjoyable and who you are in the relationship will expand.
Will YOU be at level 2, 5 or 8? And what about those relationship issues you've just been pushing to the back of your mind? Are you ready to become bigger than your problems?
Are you ready to learn how?
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