irlfriend will be assessing your worth as a long term companion. This sounds crass, but you will have been doing the same with her, consciously or not.

Most of the following need to be closely aligned in both of the partners, or there will be problems sooner or later:

- Educational level and attitudes

- Interests

- Religion

- Opinion

If you have been dumped by your girlfriend, or she is becoming moody or distant, don’t despair! Though it is a difficult time in your life, there is a lot you can do to get your ex girlfriend back, if you still care about her.

Even if she won’t give you a second chance, you can still fix the situation. Even if you were the one originally at fault, there are always effective ways to heal the wounds.

Remember, many people have been in the same situation you are in now, and managed to salvage their relationship.

Before we explore how to get your ex girlfriend back, it will be useful to go over the following questions, to clarify what type of relationship you had before it ended.

Were you in love, or was there just a mutual liking or affection? Did you feel a passion for your girlfriend, or were you simply companions? Different personality types and different cultures value passionate love more highly than 'companionate love', or vice-versa, and this may be the root of the problem.

Did you push too hard towards the bed? Females have a lot more to lose then men from the consequences of sex, and have to be more cautious about it. If you insist 'too soon', then the woman may simply find it easier to end the relationship than to keep making excuses or putting you off. If you love here, you can wait.

Were you really compatible? As you move through your first dates, into a more serious relationship, a thoughtful girlfriend will be assessing your worth as a long term companion. This sounds crass, but you will have been doing the same with her, consciously or not.

Most of the following need to be closely aligned in both of the partners, or there will be problems sooner or later:

- Educational level and attitudes

- Interests

- Religion

- Opinions

always effective ways to heal the wounds.

Remember, many people have been in the same situation you are in now, and managed to salvage their relationship.

Before we explore how to get your ex girlfriend back, it will be useful to go over the following questions, to clarify what type of relationship you had before it ended.

Were you in love, or was there just a mutual liking or affection? Did you feel a passion for your girlfriend, or were you simply companions? Different personality types and different cultures value passionate love more highly than 'companionate love', or vice-versa, and this may be the root of the problem.

Did you push too hard towards the bed? Females have a lot more to lose then men from the consequences of sex, and have to be more cautious about it. If you insist 'too soon', then the woman may simply find it easier to end the relationship than to keep making excuses or putting you off. If you love here, you can wait.

Were you really compatible? As you move through your first dates, into a more serious relationship, a thoughtful girlfriend will be assessing your worth as a long term companion. This sounds crass, but you will have been doing the same with her, consciously or not.

Most of the following need to be closely aligned in both of the partners, or there will be problems sooner or later:

- Educational level and attitudes

- Interests

- Religion

- Opinion

as there just a mutual liking or affection? Did you feel a passion for your girlfriend, or were you simply companions? Different personality types and different cultures value passionate love more highly than 'companionate love', or vice-versa, and this may be the root of the problem.

Did you push too hard towards the bed? Females have a lot more to lose then men from the consequences of sex, and have to be more cautious about it. If you insist 'too soon', then the woman may simply find it easier to end the relationship than to keep making excuses or putting you off. If you love here, you can wait.

Were you really compatible? As you move through your first dates, into a more serious relationship, a thoughtful girlfriend will be assessing your worth as a long term companion. This sounds crass, but you will have been doing the same with her, consciously or not.

Most of the following need to be closely aligned in both of the partners, or there will be problems sooner or later:

- Educational level and attitudes

- Interests

- Religion

- Opinion

n men from the consequences of sex, and have to be more cautious about it. If you insist 'too soon', then the woman may simply find it easier to end the relationship than to keep making excuses or putting you off. If you love here, you can wait.

Were you really compatible? As you move through your first dates, into a more serious relationship, a thoughtful girlfriend will be assessing your worth as a long term companion. This sounds crass, but you will have been doing the same with her, consciously or not.

Most of the following need to be closely aligned in both of the partners, or there will be problems sooner or later:

- Educational level and attitudes

- Interests

- Religion

- Opinion

irlfriend will be assessing your worth as a long term companion. This sounds crass, but you will have been doing the same with her, consciously or not.

Most of the following need to be closely aligned in both of the partners, or there will be problems sooner or later:

- Educational level and attitudes

- Interests

- Religion

- Opinions about sex, children and marriage

- Political or philosophical views

- Attitudes of the families

- Age differences

- Income levels

While on a first date, people tend to present themselves as attractively as possible, even to the extent of accepting opinions, attitudes or behavior they might find unpalatable. As the relationship continues, these differences can become more and more significant. There has to be a wide area of common ground (in the subjects listed above) with your girlfriend for the romance to flourish. Typically, after a period of six months, the 'honeymoon' period of a relationship is over, and couples are forced to either accept each others' faults or differences, or move on to a new relationship.

If this is what your girlfriend has done (moved on, to a new relationship or otherwise), and you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back, the answer lies in everything you already know about her. You need to recapture the magical 'feeling' of your first few dates, when you were a man she was attracted to, and liked. Can you remember those days? Can you remember how you acted, the things you did for her? Can you remember how she reacted and responded?

Start from there again, and you have a chance.