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    between us; he didn’t even want to be friends any longer. I did Academy Award level acting whenever he was near, and then fell apart in private.

    My prayers to get over him went nowhere. I kept fixating on how wonderful he was, what great qualities he had, and how much I missed him. I couldn’t just forget him. So in desperation during one more lonely night at home,

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    TEEN IS BROKENHEARTED OVER HER LOST FIRST LOVE

    DEAR ABBY: I am 15. Just 18 days before our three-month anniversary of dating, my boyfriend, "Brandon," broke up with me. He was my first love and I am heartbroken. Seeing him having fun with someone else, while I am alone and hurting, is awful. I want to be happy, but I still love Brandon and want him back.

    My friends and my parents all tell me to get over him. I don't want to get over Brandon. I want to know how to get him back. I miss everything we had together. When I think about the fun we had, I break down and cry. What do I do, Abby? I'm miserable without him. How do I stop loving him? -- CRYING IN NEW JERSEY

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    Boy, can I relate to this young woman’s problem. Abby went on to give some good practical advice on how to pull herself together. I wanted to share what I learned when I asked God that same question: How do I stop loving him?

    Many years ago I fell in love with the perfect guy. So much of the relationship was ideal -- we’d been friends for a long time first, we were interested in the same field, we shared a love of spirituality, he was cute -- I felt like God was smiling on me every time we were together.

    But then, it ended -- abruptly. I went into a tailspin. Our paths continued to cross several times each week, so I saw him all the time. But there was now this huge barrier between us; he didn’t even want to be friends any longer. I did Academy Award level acting whenever he was near, and then fell apart in private.

    My prayers to get over him went nowhere. I kept fixating on how wonderful he was, what great qualities he had, and how much I missed him. I couldn’t just forget him. So in desperation during one more lonely night at home,

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    My friends and my parents all tell me to get over him. I don't want to get over Brandon. I want to know how to get him back. I miss everything we had together. When I think about the fun we had, I break down and cry. What do I do, Abby? I'm miserable without him. How do I stop loving him? -- CRYING IN NEW JERSEY

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    Boy, can I relate to this young woman’s problem. Abby went on to give some good practical advice on how to pull herself together. I wanted to share what I learned when I asked God that same question: How do I stop loving him?

    Many years ago I fell in love with the perfect guy. So much of the relationship was ideal -- we’d been friends for a long time first, we were interested in the same field, we shared a love of spirituality, he was cute -- I felt like God was smiling on me every time we were together.

    But then, it ended -- abruptly. I went into a tailspin. Our paths continued to cross several times each week, so I saw him all the time. But there was now this huge barrier between us; he didn’t even want to be friends any longer. I did Academy Award level acting whenever he was near, and then fell apart in private.

    My prayers to get over him went nowhere. I kept fixating on how wonderful he was, what great qualities he had, and how much I missed him. I couldn’t just forget him. So in desperation during one more lonely night at home,

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    Boy, can I relate to this young woman’s problem. Abby went on to give some good practical advice on how to pull herself together. I wanted to share what I learned when I asked God that same question: How do I stop loving him?

    Many years ago I fell in love with the perfect guy. So much of the relationship was ideal -- we’d been friends for a long time first, we were interested in the same field, we shared a love of spirituality, he was cute -- I felt like God was smiling on me every time we were together.

    But then, it ended -- abruptly. I went into a tailspin. Our paths continued to cross several times each week, so I saw him all the time. But there was now this huge barrier between us; he didn’t even want to be friends any longer. I did Academy Award level acting whenever he was near, and then fell apart in private.

    My prayers to get over him went nowhere. I kept fixating on how wonderful he was, what great qualities he had, and how much I missed him. I couldn’t just forget him. So in desperation during one more lonely night at home,

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    -- we’d been friends for a long time first, we were interested in the same field, we shared a love of spirituality, he was cute -- I felt like God was smiling on me every time we were together.

    But then, it ended -- abruptly. I went into a tailspin. Our paths continued to cross several times each week, so I saw him all the time. But there was now this huge barrier between us; he didn’t even want to be friends any longer. I did Academy Award level acting whenever he was near, and then fell apart in private.

    My prayers to get over him went nowhere. I kept fixating on how wonderful he was, what great qualities he had, and how much I missed him. I couldn’t just forget him. So in desperation during one more lonely night at home,

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    between us; he didn’t even want to be friends any longer. I did Academy Award level acting whenever he was near, and then fell apart in private.

    My prayers to get over him went nowhere. I kept fixating on how wonderful he was, what great qualities he had, and how much I missed him. I couldn’t just forget him. So in desperation during one more lonely night at home, I asked God, “How do I stop loving him?”

    And the answer was, You don’t.

    Huh?

    You don’t ever stop loving him. What you have to do is stop wanting him.

    This major ah-ha moment transformed me. I sat in my apartment gazing at the walls, and loved him with all my heart. I paraded all his fine qualities before me and appreciated them. I valued all that he had given me in our time together, and was grateful. I dug deep into the bottom of my heart, and wished him well.

    From then on, whenever I thought of him, I loved him. With joy and gratitude, I thought only about all that I knew was good about him. What I stopped doing was wishing obsessively that we were together. I filled my mental space with an unselfish love that demanded nothing in return. I discovered my hurt was entirely a function of my frustration that he wasn’t doing what I wanted him to do. I had been being quite selfish, really.

    I began to feel full again. And over time, something interesting happened. As I appreciated his fine qualities more unselfishly, they began to appear again in my life. Other people expressed them to me; in fact, even I expressed them. The goodness I had so firmly attached to the boyfriend was actually everywhere around me. Once I got past wanting him, it turned out I didn’t need him either.

    The biggest lesson? Those qualities I so loved in this man come from one divine Source. And, since that Source fills all space, those qualiti

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