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Workmens Compensation Lawyers, Lets Raise Minimum Wage; No Lets Not, Say We Did, We Have uncomfortable – to this I agreed to stop delivering her these types of messages. I would understand this if I was a stalker, nasty, un-employed, etc.The debate to raise minimum wage in California is totally negated. The debate holds no weight because workmen’s compensation rates are completely out of control there. Arnold the Governator was able to get a little reform but with all the lawsuits flying it is no use, the system is broken. How can the employers pay the workers anymore, they are already paying more only the insurance companies are getting the money not the workers. This recent article is very telling indeed."62 Pizza Hut Restaurants Close Over Workers' Comp"http://www.sandiego.com/sdbusiness.jsp62 Restaurants? At an average of 20 employees each? Ouch, but as this makes the news how many small business people who employ similar numbers of people of between 5-15 people close each day due to issues which come from unnecessary lawsuits? Hmm? For instance in this case employment lawsuits drove up the costs of workmen's compensation insurance. Terry Greenberg of AIG, w Stranger yet, she “claims” to have and enjoys experiencing many things. Her comment regarding …“this makes me uncomfortable”… was followed-up with …“you do not send these types of messages to any of your other female friends. I have had male friends all of my life and none of them send me these types of messages. I find it strange and it makes me uncomfortable.” First of all, I am not “every other man, which I am glad. I am me. If I am not accepted by you for whom I am, then you do not view me as a “real” friend of yours. It is true, we get uncomfortable when something takes place which is not the norm…but who is to say what should and should not be considered the norm? If I was to tell her each and every day …“you sure are an ugly woman, your hair could use a serious make-over, and your clothes are way outdated and yes, not to mention you could loose some weight!” No matter how “strong and confident” she believes herself to be, s Wills These are the words which have been spoken time and again from seemingly well meaning females whom I thought were into me for who I am, not what I could be.A will is a legal document that determines what happens to a person’s property after his or her death. A will states who receives property and assets and in what amount. Property distributed under the terms of the will become the probate estate. Making a will is a responsibility, as well as a right that is protected by law.A will should be made when a person is legally competent, having a sound mind and at least 18 years old. It should be prepared while its maker is in good health and free from emotional stress. In other words, to make a valid will, people must understand things such as what property they own, its value, and whom they are leaving it after their death.A person does not need to have a large estate to plan and prepare a will. Anyone who owns property, including cash, stocks, jewelry or furniture, or real property, such as land or house, could prepare a will. If married, each spouse should have a will indicating the owners The promise I made to myself to never become hurt again by these words was to be accomplished by enclosing myself inside of a “wall” built from past pain (heartbreak). I went against my will (knowledge, from experiences past), and allowed a woman to penetrate this wall I had built to keep me (my heart) safe. On one hand I do not regret granting her the permission I gave her to gain access to me (my heart), yet on the other hand I do. My regret comes from the fact I should have known from my past (which I thought I did, after all this is what I had erected this wall of safety for) and from looking at her track record for “dumping” men in her own life (like they were on a lazy-Susan turn table and it was spinning extremely fast). The part I do not regret is I really did fall into deep like and then into real heartfelt love for this woman. It was not a physical attractive at first, what attracted me most was her mind. Sure she is a good looking woman, but her straight-forward mentality, fun; outgoing and witty characteristics are the real part of her I fell in love with at first. Truth be told, she is not the most physically attractive woman by far! She is OK; she is not a 10 on a scale from one to ten. Even if she was a solid ten in the physical department, she wears enough clothing to make any father secure in knowing his daughter is not eye candy from the chin down. I vividly recall chatting for endless hours on the phone and in-person with this woman, she has a smoothly, feminine voice which makes me drunk with reason. We would talk about everything and anything, nothing was left to chance. Though I was very much enclosed in my protective barricade to shield me from the harmful affects of a woman hurting me ever again, she slowly began to chisel the brick from the wall; I securely called home for several years. After careful review I now see a pattern she has kept for almost her entire life. She is searching for ‘the right” one, yet she is afraid to let someone “all the way in.” I am unsure if it is from past experience and or just her own fears of what the future may bring. She enjoys “flirting” with many men, and to my knowledge from keen observation does not see how the majority of men really view her. They enjoy the stimulation of flirting with her, due to the simple fact they have to make no solid commitment to her and for them she is just another (hopefully) sexual conquest. She enjoys all of the attention from males (though she acts if it does not affect her at all), deep down I believe almost everyone desires to be wanted, appreciated and patronized by someone special in your life. The way men stare at her is for sexual conquest only; I have yet to witness a male whom talks with her without there being any type of “flirtatious” sexual tones over-powering true like for her and possible chemistry which go beyond physical attraction. I have stated this to her on several occasion, yet she refuses to believe this is the case. There are a few times she voiced she felt this from some men, but over all she will say they were just being friendly, it was just a flirtatious gesture, etc. When I attempt to bring to her attention the fact a man was “hitting” on her for more than just friends and coffee she refuses to believe these points. I have looked at my self on several occasions to be sure it is not jealousy on my part, after vigilant observation I know it is not jealousy. I do not feel jealousy toward her, I truly love her very much and if a man would come into her life who actually cared for her for who she is and not who she could be, I will be extremely supportive and happy for both of them. Sure, sure, the age old story …”I like her for her personality”, well in my case this is actually the solid truth! I did however get to the point I now see her as physically attractive too. I enjoy her verbal and physical company very, very much. I am what some would label as a hopeless romantic; I really enjoy doing for her. My thoughts are constantly considering ways to enhance the knowledge she has of the fact that I really do love her. I send her emails saying such things as good morning gorgeous, hello beautiful, etc., she stated this makes her feel uncomfortable – to this I agreed to stop delivering her these types of messages. I would understand this if I was a stalker, nasty, un-employed, etc. Stranger yet, she “claims” to have and enjoys experiencing many things. Her comment regarding …“this makes me uncomfortable”… was followed-up with …“you do not send these types of messages to any of your other female friends. I have had male friends all of my life and none of them send me these types of messages. I find it strange and it makes me uncomfortable.” First of all, I am not “every other man, which I am glad. I am me. If I am not accepted by you for whom I am, then you do not view me as a “real” friend of yours. It is true, we get uncomfortable when something takes place which is not the norm…but who is to say what should and should not be considered the norm? If I was to tell her each and every day …“you sure are an ugly woman, your hair could use a serious make-over, and your clothes are way outdated and yes, not to mention you could loose some weight!” No matter how “strong and confident” she believes herself to be, sh Monetization And A Bold Promise e she is a good looking woman, but her straight-forward mentality, fun; outgoing and witty characteristics are the real part of her I fell in love with at first.In the next year I will create in excess of $ 1,000,000 of new found “Monetized” money for those who read, absorb and act on the concepts presented at monetization-sensation.Monetization is the process of converting or establishing something into legal tender. It usually refers to the printing of banknotes by central banks, but things such as gold, silver and diamonds can also be monetized. Even intrinsically worthless items can be made into money, as long as they are difficult to make or acquire. Monetization may also refer to exchanging securities for currency, selling a possession, charging for something that used to be free or making money on a goods and services that were previously unprofitable. (Source Wikipedia)Let's try to visualize that last paragraph. Imagine having your owning printing press for currency that you could use and it was legal ! It sounds like the alchemist of old who dreamed of turning dirt into gold. If we l Truth be told, she is not the most physically attractive woman by far! She is OK; she is not a 10 on a scale from one to ten. Even if she was a solid ten in the physical department, she wears enough clothing to make any father secure in knowing his daughter is not eye candy from the chin down. I vividly recall chatting for endless hours on the phone and in-person with this woman, she has a smoothly, feminine voice which makes me drunk with reason. We would talk about everything and anything, nothing was left to chance. Though I was very much enclosed in my protective barricade to shield me from the harmful affects of a woman hurting me ever again, she slowly began to chisel the brick from the wall; I securely called home for several years. After careful review I now see a pattern she has kept for almost her entire life. She is searching for ‘the right” one, yet she is afraid to let someone “all the way in.” I am unsure if it is from past experience and or just her own fears of what the future may bring. She enjoys “flirting” with many men, and to my knowledge from keen observation does not see how the majority of men really view her. They enjoy the stimulation of flirting with her, due to the simple fact they have to make no solid commitment to her and for them she is just another (hopefully) sexual conquest. She enjoys all of the attention from males (though she acts if it does not affect her at all), deep down I believe almost everyone desires to be wanted, appreciated and patronized by someone special in your life. The way men stare at her is for sexual conquest only; I have yet to witness a male whom talks with her without there being any type of “flirtatious” sexual tones over-powering true like for her and possible chemistry which go beyond physical attraction. I have stated this to her on several occasion, yet she refuses to believe this is the case. There are a few times she voiced she felt this from some men, but over all she will say they were just being friendly, it was just a flirtatious gesture, etc. When I attempt to bring to her attention the fact a man was “hitting” on her for more than just friends and coffee she refuses to believe these points. I have looked at my self on several occasions to be sure it is not jealousy on my part, after vigilant observation I know it is not jealousy. I do not feel jealousy toward her, I truly love her very much and if a man would come into her life who actually cared for her for who she is and not who she could be, I will be extremely supportive and happy for both of them. Sure, sure, the age old story …”I like her for her personality”, well in my case this is actually the solid truth! I did however get to the point I now see her as physically attractive too. I enjoy her verbal and physical company very, very much. I am what some would label as a hopeless romantic; I really enjoy doing for her. My thoughts are constantly considering ways to enhance the knowledge she has of the fact that I really do love her. I send her emails saying such things as good morning gorgeous, hello beautiful, etc., she stated this makes her feel uncomfortable – to this I agreed to stop delivering her these types of messages. I would understand this if I was a stalker, nasty, un-employed, etc. Stranger yet, she “claims” to have and enjoys experiencing many things. Her comment regarding …“this makes me uncomfortable”… was followed-up with …“you do not send these types of messages to any of your other female friends. I have had male friends all of my life and none of them send me these types of messages. I find it strange and it makes me uncomfortable.” First of all, I am not “every other man, which I am glad. I am me. If I am not accepted by you for whom I am, then you do not view me as a “real” friend of yours. It is true, we get uncomfortable when something takes place which is not the norm…but who is to say what should and should not be considered the norm? If I was to tell her each and every day …“you sure are an ugly woman, your hair could use a serious make-over, and your clothes are way outdated and yes, not to mention you could loose some weight!” No matter how “strong and confident” she believes herself to be, s All About Debt Consolidation Loans if it is from past experience and or just her own fears of what the future may bring. She enjoys “flirting” with many men, and to my knowledge from keen observation does not see how the majority of men really view her. 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Without consolidation you may find that minimum monthly payments simply service the interest accrued on your debt, without having any impact on the debt itse She enjoys all of the attention from males (though she acts if it does not affect her at all), deep down I believe almost everyone desires to be wanted, appreciated and patronized by someone special in your life. The way men stare at her is for sexual conquest only; I have yet to witness a male whom talks with her without there being any type of “flirtatious” sexual tones over-powering true like for her and possible chemistry which go beyond physical attraction. I have stated this to her on several occasion, yet she refuses to believe this is the case. There are a few times she voiced she felt this from some men, but over all she will say they were just being friendly, it was just a flirtatious gesture, etc. When I attempt to bring to her attention the fact a man was “hitting” on her for more than just friends and coffee she refuses to believe these points. I have looked at my self on several occasions to be sure it is not jealousy on my part, after vigilant observation I know it is not jealousy. I do not feel jealousy toward her, I truly love her very much and if a man would come into her life who actually cared for her for who she is and not who she could be, I will be extremely supportive and happy for both of them. Sure, sure, the age old story …”I like her for her personality”, well in my case this is actually the solid truth! I did however get to the point I now see her as physically attractive too. I enjoy her verbal and physical company very, very much. I am what some would label as a hopeless romantic; I really enjoy doing for her. My thoughts are constantly considering ways to enhance the knowledge she has of the fact that I really do love her. I send her emails saying such things as good morning gorgeous, hello beautiful, etc., she stated this makes her feel uncomfortable – to this I agreed to stop delivering her these types of messages. I would understand this if I was a stalker, nasty, un-employed, etc. Stranger yet, she “claims” to have and enjoys experiencing many things. Her comment regarding …“this makes me uncomfortable”… was followed-up with …“you do not send these types of messages to any of your other female friends. I have had male friends all of my life and none of them send me these types of messages. I find it strange and it makes me uncomfortable.” First of all, I am not “every other man, which I am glad. I am me. If I am not accepted by you for whom I am, then you do not view me as a “real” friend of yours. It is true, we get uncomfortable when something takes place which is not the norm…but who is to say what should and should not be considered the norm? If I was to tell her each and every day …“you sure are an ugly woman, your hair could use a serious make-over, and your clothes are way outdated and yes, not to mention you could loose some weight!” No matter how “strong and confident” she believes herself to be, s Hurricanes and Insurance Issues gesture, etc. When I attempt to bring to her attention the fact a man was “hitting” on her for more than just friends and coffee she refuses to believe these points.Hurricanes indeed cause much damage and most of the damage is caused by flooding and yet flood damage is generally not covered under most home owners policies and this means many people are completely left SOL and it throws them into financial ruin.There was a case that went all the way to the Supreme Court because an Insurance Company would not pay for flood damage caused during a Hurricane, even though the Home Owners Insurance had a clause that it would pay for wind driven rain damage. The homeowners in the class action lawsuit said;“Well a Hurricane is driven by wind and that is what caused the water to flood and therefore you have to fix our homes and you cannot get out of it!”The Supreme Court disagreed and sided with the Insurance Company and therefore they were NOT made to pay on the claim. You see, most homeowner’s policies do not include flood damages and some say really none of them do and no insuran I have looked at my self on several occasions to be sure it is not jealousy on my part, after vigilant observation I know it is not jealousy. I do not feel jealousy toward her, I truly love her very much and if a man would come into her life who actually cared for her for who she is and not who she could be, I will be extremely supportive and happy for both of them. Sure, sure, the age old story …”I like her for her personality”, well in my case this is actually the solid truth! I did however get to the point I now see her as physically attractive too. I enjoy her verbal and physical company very, very much. I am what some would label as a hopeless romantic; I really enjoy doing for her. My thoughts are constantly considering ways to enhance the knowledge she has of the fact that I really do love her. I send her emails saying such things as good morning gorgeous, hello beautiful, etc., she stated this makes her feel uncomfortable – to this I agreed to stop delivering her these types of messages. I would understand this if I was a stalker, nasty, un-employed, etc. Stranger yet, she “claims” to have and enjoys experiencing many things. Her comment regarding …“this makes me uncomfortable”… was followed-up with …“you do not send these types of messages to any of your other female friends. I have had male friends all of my life and none of them send me these types of messages. I find it strange and it makes me uncomfortable.” First of all, I am not “every other man, which I am glad. I am me. If I am not accepted by you for whom I am, then you do not view me as a “real” friend of yours. It is true, we get uncomfortable when something takes place which is not the norm…but who is to say what should and should not be considered the norm? If I was to tell her each and every day …“you sure are an ugly woman, your hair could use a serious make-over, and your clothes are way outdated and yes, not to mention you could loose some weight!” No matter how “strong and confident” she believes herself to be, s What is the Australian Fair Pay Commission & Standard - Does It Affect Your Business? uncomfortable – to this I agreed to stop delivering her these types of messages. I would understand this if I was a stalker, nasty, un-employed, etc.The Australian Fair Pay Commission came into being on 14th December 2005 and takes over from the Australian Industrial Relations Commission in its wage setting capacity.The ‘standard’ equates to the minimum conditions of employment that an employee is entitled to working in AustraliaThe ‘standard’ applies to constitutional corporations (incorporated) from 27 March 2006.For non constitutional corporations (unincorporated) employee relations matters will be subject to the various state industrial relations commissions. You could say there is going to be double standards and this could well effect your business.WHAT IS THE STANDARDThe standard replaces the safety net of minimum wages and conditions and preserves and establishes minimum conditions of employment for;1 Annual Leave 2 Annual Leave Loading 3 Personal / Carers Leave 4 Maximum ordinary hours of work 5 Minimum wages 6 Parental Stranger yet, she “claims” to have and enjoys experiencing many things. Her comment regarding …“this makes me uncomfortable”… was followed-up with …“you do not send these types of messages to any of your other female friends. I have had male friends all of my life and none of them send me these types of messages. I find it strange and it makes me uncomfortable.” First of all, I am not “every other man, which I am glad. I am me. If I am not accepted by you for whom I am, then you do not view me as a “real” friend of yours. It is true, we get uncomfortable when something takes place which is not the norm…but who is to say what should and should not be considered the norm? If I was to tell her each and every day …“you sure are an ugly woman, your hair could use a serious make-over, and your clothes are way outdated and yes, not to mention you could loose some weight!” No matter how “strong and confident” she believes herself to be, she would eventually begin to have a lower confidence level about herself. I am not in the …“knock-out, put-down, because I am angry at what others have done to me, so I will now hurt you like I have been hurt - business!” Second, it has always struck me as odd when women complain and describe their “perfect” man. They finally get someone in their life, which is not “perfect”, but someone who will not cheat on them in the least little bit, will not verbally degrade them, will never physically abuse them, may seem over-powering, and taking-up too much of their free space because they really do care for them (which the woman can ask for her space and due to the fact this man is truly in love with her, for her and is a real gentlemen, will back-off, giving her room to breath), this man will be around after she runs around cheating on him, not because he is a passive, wimp, but because he passionately cherishes her and loves her. These women will whine to all of their friends how they wish this type of man would enter their lives and when he does, it scares them, because now it is “too perfect” and surly something must be wrong. The truth is, if money was no object in my life this woman (without doubt) and almost any other woman would be at my beckoning call. This actually saddens me, I care for this woman, yet I know she would be into me again if I had unlimited resources (of course I now know she never loved me to begin with. At the time I was a disposable “toy” and once my cash-flow dwindled she dropped me like a bungee jumper using a kite string. When this woman broke it off with me for the (?) time (too many to count, different excuses each time). She claims to be straight forward, but I have yet to get the real answer of why she finally “dumped” me and what “attracted” her to me to start with (she has always delivered a different story each time, stranger than me telling her she is beautiful). I know I am not by any means “perfect”, but I am loyal, trust worthy and honestly in love with her. She would never have to “wonder” why the business trips were so frequent and long, etc.
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