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Casual Articles - What You Can And Cannot Control
CeMAP training for armed services personnel who are leaving the services is a relatively recent innovation. The Herne Group were the first company to be approved to supply CeMAP training to armed forces personnel, and are still the only company offering CeMAP training distance learning materials to resettlement personnel. Prior to this innovation, the traditional career training given for armed forces resettlement has been in driving, security, general admin roles, etc.This CeMAP training has been approved by the Career Transition Par
If you need help in doing that, then get it. You'll be doing yourself a tremendous favor by doing that. Watch how much anxiety and stress seem to disappear once you do that. Life is challenging enough without trying to control those things you cannot. Don't you owe that to yourself?
Have a phenomenal week!
Yours In Success,
Mitch Harris
President
Communication Mastery
"If you are not concerned about the outcome of a circumstance, you will experience no fear. When you attach yourself to expectations, anxiety and fear will overcome you. The outcome will be what it will be, regardless of your expectations and fears."
- CHIN
This is a question that many new investors ask themselves I have asked myself this many times also. This of course must be answered individually, however below are some things to consider prior to taking that much desired step as an investor.My first year I used my job earnings to put money back in building my business. Prudent investors do not open a business without a cash flow coming in regularly, or 3-6 months reserves. Disclaimer: Steve Cook did, but most of us may not be the next Steve Cook of investing, shucks anyway! For the r
You are putting yourself through emotional stress that you don't need to. You are putting an unnecessary weight on your shoulders that slows you down and that will take you out of the game if you let it. Why do so many people attempt to control things they cannot?
It's actually rather simple. It's because MOST PEOPLE WANT TO CONTROL EVERYTHING! Call it ego, or dominance, a desire for power, or being overly aggressive. Sometimes it is actually initiated by a fear of being OUT of control. But this is a compulsion that strikes so many people. I believe entrepreneurs are more prone to this tendency because as a rule, we are very driven individuals. And drive, if not checked, can lead to compulsion. Sometimes compulsion can be a productive thing, but very often it is unhealthy.
Think about the price you have paid up to this point as a result of becoming emotionally CONTROLLED by things you cannot control. Think about the irony of that for a moment as well. If you were advising someone else on those very same issues, what would your advice be? Can you see the disconnect there? So what are some tools to address this?
The first is understand that there are basically 3 levels on the spectrum of control:
1) There is what you absolutely CAN control.
2) There is what you can exert a limited amount of control over.
3) And there is what you absolutely CANNOT control.
The place where things normally get most confusing is between areas 2 and 3.
Once you are applying this, you must get crystal clear on what you absolutely cannot control. This is critical! Do whatever you have to on this - whether it means attaining a new level of honesty with yourself, observing recurring patterns or results up to this point, getting an objective, 3rd person perspective, whatever it takes.
In the coaching work I do, I find that very often just getting clear on this alone can be one of the biggest breakthroughs my clients can acquire. The bottom line is getting clear on spheres of control is a critical component of anyone's success blueprint.
Next, do your best to keep your mind rooted in what is occurring in the present moment, not what you believe will or could happen in the near, medium or distant future. You can work to create a better future and by all means please do that. But you cannot absolutely control what will happen in the future. A great book to read on this topic is called "The Power Of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. I have no commercial interest in promoting this book, I simply recommend you read it.
And finally, when you have clearly identified what you absolutely cannot control, whatever it may have taken to figure that out, once you have identified it - LET IT GO! - LET IT GO! "But Mitch, you don't understand, it's not that easy, you don't know my situation, I...LET IT GO!!! "I've tried, but I just get so..." LET IT GO!!! How about this - just try letting go of it for a little while and see what happens. Okay?
If you need help in doing that, then get it. You'll be doing yourself a tremendous favor by doing that. Watch how much anxiety and stress seem to disappear once you do that. Life is challenging enough without trying to control those things you cannot. Don't you owe that to yourself?
Have a phenomenal week!
Yours In Success,
Mitch Harris
President
Communication Mastery
"If you are not concerned about the outcome of a circumstance, you will experience no fear. When you attach yourself to expectations, anxiety and fear will overcome you. The outcome will be what it will be, regardless of your expectations and fears."
- CHIN
The biometric time clock helps to gain the objectives of security, convenience, and accuracy, which is of great importance in contemporary working environments. Biometric time clock maintenance requires professionalism, even though the maintenance cost is low. The parts of biometric clocks are easily available and can be replaced to give more perfection.The hand reader is the main part of the equipment; it is where the employee places the hand for the image to be scanned accordingly and checked with the data stored earlier. Sometime
Think about the price you have paid up to this point as a result of becoming emotionally CONTROLLED by things you cannot control. Think about the irony of that for a moment as well. If you were advising someone else on those very same issues, what would your advice be? Can you see the disconnect there? So what are some tools to address this?
The first is understand that there are basically 3 levels on the spectrum of control:
1) There is what you absolutely CAN control.
2) There is what you can exert a limited amount of control over.
3) And there is what you absolutely CANNOT control.
The place where things normally get most confusing is between areas 2 and 3.
Once you are applying this, you must get crystal clear on what you absolutely cannot control. This is critical! Do whatever you have to on this - whether it means attaining a new level of honesty with yourself, observing recurring patterns or results up to this point, getting an objective, 3rd person perspective, whatever it takes.
In the coaching work I do, I find that very often just getting clear on this alone can be one of the biggest breakthroughs my clients can acquire. The bottom line is getting clear on spheres of control is a critical component of anyone's success blueprint.
Next, do your best to keep your mind rooted in what is occurring in the present moment, not what you believe will or could happen in the near, medium or distant future. You can work to create a better future and by all means please do that. But you cannot absolutely control what will happen in the future. A great book to read on this topic is called "The Power Of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. I have no commercial interest in promoting this book, I simply recommend you read it.
And finally, when you have clearly identified what you absolutely cannot control, whatever it may have taken to figure that out, once you have identified it - LET IT GO! - LET IT GO! "But Mitch, you don't understand, it's not that easy, you don't know my situation, I...LET IT GO!!! "I've tried, but I just get so..." LET IT GO!!! How about this - just try letting go of it for a little while and see what happens. Okay?
If you need help in doing that, then get it. You'll be doing yourself a tremendous favor by doing that. Watch how much anxiety and stress seem to disappear once you do that. Life is challenging enough without trying to control those things you cannot. Don't you owe that to yourself?
Have a phenomenal week!
Yours In Success,
Mitch Harris
President
Communication Mastery
"If you are not concerned about the outcome of a circumstance, you will experience no fear. When you attach yourself to expectations, anxiety and fear will overcome you. The outcome will be what it will be, regardless of your expectations and fears."
- CHIN
Dynamite comes in small packages... or in small ads in the marketing realm. Our natural instincts scream that BIGGER IS BETTER! Is it really true? Sure, the small advertisement doesn’t have the luxury to of listing all of the benefits and cementing the deal. It does whet the reader’s appetite for more information and clearly directs them to the desired info. Here are 4 easy steps to make small ads work for you.1. One Product, One Target
Let’s face it, you don’t have space to waste. Decide on your specific target audience and focu
1) There is what you absolutely CAN control.
2) There is what you can exert a limited amount of control over.
3) And there is what you absolutely CANNOT control.
The place where things normally get most confusing is between areas 2 and 3.
Once you are applying this, you must get crystal clear on what you absolutely cannot control. This is critical! Do whatever you have to on this - whether it means attaining a new level of honesty with yourself, observing recurring patterns or results up to this point, getting an objective, 3rd person perspective, whatever it takes.
In the coaching work I do, I find that very often just getting clear on this alone can be one of the biggest breakthroughs my clients can acquire. The bottom line is getting clear on spheres of control is a critical component of anyone's success blueprint.
Next, do your best to keep your mind rooted in what is occurring in the present moment, not what you believe will or could happen in the near, medium or distant future. You can work to create a better future and by all means please do that. But you cannot absolutely control what will happen in the future. A great book to read on this topic is called "The Power Of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. I have no commercial interest in promoting this book, I simply recommend you read it.
And finally, when you have clearly identified what you absolutely cannot control, whatever it may have taken to figure that out, once you have identified it - LET IT GO! - LET IT GO! "But Mitch, you don't understand, it's not that easy, you don't know my situation, I...LET IT GO!!! "I've tried, but I just get so..." LET IT GO!!! How about this - just try letting go of it for a little while and see what happens. Okay?
If you need help in doing that, then get it. You'll be doing yourself a tremendous favor by doing that. Watch how much anxiety and stress seem to disappear once you do that. Life is challenging enough without trying to control those things you cannot. Don't you owe that to yourself?
Have a phenomenal week!
Yours In Success,
Mitch Harris
President
Communication Mastery
"If you are not concerned about the outcome of a circumstance, you will experience no fear. When you attach yourself to expectations, anxiety and fear will overcome you. The outcome will be what it will be, regardless of your expectations and fears."
- CHIN
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Next, do your best to keep your mind rooted in what is occurring in the present moment, not what you believe will or could happen in the near, medium or distant future. You can work to create a better future and by all means please do that. But you cannot absolutely control what will happen in the future. A great book to read on this topic is called "The Power Of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. I have no commercial interest in promoting this book, I simply recommend you read it.
And finally, when you have clearly identified what you absolutely cannot control, whatever it may have taken to figure that out, once you have identified it - LET IT GO! - LET IT GO! "But Mitch, you don't understand, it's not that easy, you don't know my situation, I...LET IT GO!!! "I've tried, but I just get so..." LET IT GO!!! How about this - just try letting go of it for a little while and see what happens. Okay?
If you need help in doing that, then get it. You'll be doing yourself a tremendous favor by doing that. Watch how much anxiety and stress seem to disappear once you do that. Life is challenging enough without trying to control those things you cannot. Don't you owe that to yourself?
Have a phenomenal week!
Yours In Success,
Mitch Harris
President
Communication Mastery
"If you are not concerned about the outcome of a circumstance, you will experience no fear. When you attach yourself to expectations, anxiety and fear will overcome you. The outcome will be what it will be, regardless of your expectations and fears."
- CHIN
Golf tournaments have become a very popular way for charity to raise money. Probably the number one reason why most companies support a tournament is an affinity for the cause. But in addition to supporting a worthy cause, golf tournament sponsorship represents an opportunity for effective advertising. This article contains some anecdotal evidence to support this theory.At a golf tournament a while ago, I happened to be on the same foursome and share a cart with one of that tournament’s major sponsors. This fellow was a marketing man
If you need help in doing that, then get it. You'll be doing yourself a tremendous favor by doing that. Watch how much anxiety and stress seem to disappear once you do that. Life is challenging enough without trying to control those things you cannot. Don't you owe that to yourself?
Have a phenomenal week!
Yours In Success,
Mitch Harris
President
Communication Mastery
"If you are not concerned about the outcome of a circumstance, you will experience no fear. When you attach yourself to expectations, anxiety and fear will overcome you. The outcome will be what it will be, regardless of your expectations and fears." - CHIN NING CHU
"Performing your duty without attachment or aversion is a great antidote to the poison of fear." -BHAGAVAD GITA
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