In Division There is Opportunity
Unless companies adopt an holistic approach to security that focuses on building and fostering a culture of honesty and integrity, GAP’s will appear in their defenses and in their ability to perform their mission of selling their products and services. Once GAP’s are exposed, they can be exploited for the personal gain of the individual(s) exposing them. Once this occurs, the only question remaining will be; can you cope with the crisis being c

Soft Skills Identification In Hiring - How To Know Who You're Hiring
What did they do in ancient Egypt that employers are still using with amazing success today? They analyzed handwriting.Does handwriting really show the personality of the writer? Does analyzing the writing of potential job candidates work?Answer: YES. 90% of European employers consistently use it for hiring, promotion, and interpersonal conflict. Obviously this repeat use indicates satisfaction with the results.How can you manage your emotions during your career change or job search?  To answer this practical and wise question, let’s first define what emotions are.  Emotions, also commonly referred to as feelings, are energy released in your body in response to perceived events, that is, to data received via your five senses.

To build your skill in managing your emotions during your current or next career transition:

1.) Practice Naming Your Emotions.  There’s great power in simply naming your emotions as you experience them.  Check in with yourself several times a day and name your emotions in a journal or log.  Learn to identify the nuances of difference between emotions that are similar.  Choose carefully how you name what you’re feeling:  word choice creates reality!

2.) Allow Yourself to Feel What You Feel.  Resisting emotions keeps you stuck in them.  Why not do something radical like feeling them?  Let the emotion wash over you and it will pass through you infinitely more gently.  Feeling your feelings is always easier than resisting them, because emotions grow in proportion to our resistance to them.

3.) Express What You Feel. Unexpressed emotions are like poison trapped in the body.  You don’t really want to do that to yourself, do you?  Let them out!  The key here is safety and appropriateness.  Find ways to express your emotions

ived via your five senses.

To build your skill in managing your emotions during your current or next career transition:

1.) Practice Naming Your Emotions.  There’s great power in simply naming your emotions as you experience them.  Check in with yourself several times a day and name your emotions in a journal or log.  Learn to identify the nuances of difference between emotions that are similar.  Choose carefully how you name what you’re feeling:  word choice creates reality!

2.) Allow Yourself to Feel What You Feel.  Resisting emotions keeps you stuck in them.  Why not do something radical like feeling them?  Let the emotion wash over you and it will pass through you infinitely more gently.  Feeling your feelings is always easier than resisting them, because emotions grow in proportion to our resistance to them.

3.) Express What You Feel. Unexpressed emotions are like poison trapped in the body.  You don’t really want to do that to yourself, do you?  Let them out!  The key here is safety and appropriateness.  Find ways to express your emotions

self several times a day and name your emotions in a journal or log.  Learn to identify the nuances of difference between emotions that are similar.  Choose carefully how you name what you’re feeling:  word choice creates reality!

2.) Allow Yourself to Feel What You Feel.  Resisting emotions keeps you stuck in them.  Why not do something radical like feeling them?  Let the emotion wash over you and it will pass through you infinitely more gently.  Feeling your feelings is always easier than resisting them, because emotions grow in proportion to our resistance to them.

3.) Express What You Feel. Unexpressed emotions are like poison trapped in the body.  You don’t really want to do that to yourself, do you?  Let them out!  The key here is safety and appropriateness.  Find ways to express your emotions

.  Resisting emotions keeps you stuck in them.  Why not do something radical like feeling them?  Let the emotion wash over you and it will pass through you infinitely more gently.  Feeling your feelings is always easier than resisting them, because emotions grow in proportion to our resistance to them.

3.) Express What You Feel. Unexpressed emotions are like poison trapped in the body.  You don’t really want to do that to yourself, do you?  Let them out!  The key here is safety and appropriateness.  Find ways to express your emotions

ur resistance to them.

3.) Express What You Feel. Unexpressed emotions are like poison trapped in the body.  You don’t really want to do that to yourself, do you?  Let them out!  The key here is safety and appropriateness.  Find ways to express your emotions that are safe and mature for you and those around you.

4.) Act on Your Emotions.  Again, safety and appropriateness are key.  Emotions are messengers from your internal reality prompting you to take some action.  Discover what each emotion wants you to do, then do it, safely.  Don’t delay, or your emotions will act on you.

5.) Journal.   Journal thoughts, emotions, dreams and dialogues.  Write letters you won’t send.  Mine your innards to find the truth within. 

6.) Exercise.  Physical activity is a great stress reducer and safe way to channel your emotions into action.  Whether it’s a walk or a swim, a bike ride or run, or aerobics or muscle building, it will help you constructively channel your stress into a healthy mind and body.  Start slow; be consistent!

7.) Talk to a Safe Someone.  Call a friend or family member; find a counselor; try a coach or spiritual director; meet with a priest, pastor or rabbi … but call someone!  You don’t have to bear your burdens alone unless you choose to … and why would you choose to?