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Jobs without College Degrees ctive.In our early youth we all take up jobs to earn money. Right. But do all of us enjoy doing whatever we are supposed to do. Remember, that is a very vital question. Unless you have internal satisfaction in doing a job, you better quit because in the end, nobody is happy, neither you who despise the job nor your employer who finds a reluctant employee eating out of his hand, displacing a willing worker. I recall a seminar addressed by a senior vice president of an MNC, attended by me where the venerable gentleman opened his speech by stating that he started his carrier as a window cleaner and that he loved hi 4. Recognize you can be difficult, too. 5. Try to understand why difficult people are difficult. Are they always hard to get along with, or just on those "bad days" everyone, including you, has? Could it be they are just different? Understand that what may be seen as normal behavior by some, could be outrageous in another's view. Salesmen often find accountants too difficult when they are finicky about numbers. On the other hand, CPA's may find salesmen, with their aggressive personalities and "big picture" views, hard to get along with. 6. Be big enough to accommodate with the difficult person, up to a point, so long a Over Forty? Give Yourself Permission Now to Follow Your Heart; it May Save Your Life Unless you are among the luckiest people in the world, or you are totally free of all relationships in the real world, you have to cope with difficult people in the course of your work.There isn’t a better timeHave you defined and written down exactly what you want in your vocational life? Have you talked about it with others? Now is a perfect time to follow your heart and become a magnet for your dreams.Give yourself permission to live the life you chooseThis is harder than you might think. There are many obstacles to cross before doing the work you love. These include financial concerns, relationship concerns and family concerns; the list is endless.Your life is not endlessAt forty, we suddenly realize that our life has a finite length. So what bette Difficult people are everywhere. Some are habitually late for work. Customers are often rude. Co-workers can be abusive and uncooperative as they guard their turf. Others may goof off leaving you to pick up the slack. There are bosses who consistently make unreasonable demands and never have a kind word to say. “Don’t waste your time searching for Utopia where there are no difficult people. The wise, truly ambitious careerist, spends his or her time figuring out how to manage these relationships so that they don't become roadblocks to personal progress and success for the organization,” says Ramon Greenwood, senior career counselor at Common Sense At Work. CAREER BLOCKERS COME IN SEVEN FORMS In his book, Coping With Difficult People, Dr. Robert M. Bramson names seven basic patterns of difficult behavior: 1. Hostile-Aggressive: The bullies, walking time bombs, who throw tantrums and try to "muscle" their way through. 2. Complainers: They gripe incessantly, but never try to make things better. 3. Silent and Unresponsive: They only answer, "yeah," "nope," or just grunt and stare. 4. Super-Agreeables: Very likable, outgoing people who will agree to anything, but rarely produce what they promise. 5. Negativists: For them, "It won't work, it's impossible." They are always complaining; always ready to criticize everything about the job; always gossiping. 6. Know-It-All Experts: These are superior types who want you to know how smart they are and to realize how incompetent you are. 7. Indecisives: They wait for someone else to make the decisions; if they do have to decide, they want to wait until everything is perfect. If things go wrong, someone else is at fault. TEN WAYS TO DEAL WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE Here are 10 common sense suggestions that should help in dealing with these difficult types. 1. Recognize you are not "just being negative and difficult" yourself when you acknowledge the reality that the world is brim full of difficult people. 2. Keep your eyes on your personal goals. Don't let hard-to-get-along-with people become a personal issue. Put them in the proper perspective. They are not your personal problem unless they impede your progress. 3. You don't have to like a person to get along with him or her. Working relationships are not like marriages. They are transient connections in the process of reaching your objective. 4. Recognize you can be difficult, too. 5. Try to understand why difficult people are difficult. Are they always hard to get along with, or just on those "bad days" everyone, including you, has? Could it be they are just different? Understand that what may be seen as normal behavior by some, could be outrageous in another's view. Salesmen often find accountants too difficult when they are finicky about numbers. On the other hand, CPA's may find salesmen, with their aggressive personalities and "big picture" views, hard to get along with. 6. Be big enough to accommodate with the difficult person, up to a point, so long as Business Forms ut how to manage
these relationships so that they don't become roadblocks to personal progress and
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Common Sense At Work.Business forms are an integral part of any official communication. Be it a business setup, private company, government organization, or small home office, business forms are of great help to record various processes, dealings, and communications. Invoices, statements, purchase orders, packing lists, labels, letterheads, envelopes and business cards are all examples of business forms. Business forms contain repetitive information and are usually required in bulk. They are required while doing business with another company or within the company. Whatever the reason, these forms are important.Forms are CAREER BLOCKERS COME IN SEVEN FORMS In his book, Coping With Difficult People, Dr. Robert M. Bramson names seven basic patterns of difficult behavior: 1. Hostile-Aggressive: The bullies, walking time bombs, who throw tantrums and try to "muscle" their way through. 2. Complainers: They gripe incessantly, but never try to make things better. 3. Silent and Unresponsive: They only answer, "yeah," "nope," or just grunt and stare. 4. Super-Agreeables: Very likable, outgoing people who will agree to anything, but rarely produce what they promise. 5. Negativists: For them, "It won't work, it's impossible." They are always complaining; always ready to criticize everything about the job; always gossiping. 6. Know-It-All Experts: These are superior types who want you to know how smart they are and to realize how incompetent you are. 7. Indecisives: They wait for someone else to make the decisions; if they do have to decide, they want to wait until everything is perfect. If things go wrong, someone else is at fault. TEN WAYS TO DEAL WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE Here are 10 common sense suggestions that should help in dealing with these difficult types. 1. Recognize you are not "just being negative and difficult" yourself when you acknowledge the reality that the world is brim full of difficult people. 2. Keep your eyes on your personal goals. Don't let hard-to-get-along-with people become a personal issue. Put them in the proper perspective. They are not your personal problem unless they impede your progress. 3. You don't have to like a person to get along with him or her. Working relationships are not like marriages. They are transient connections in the process of reaching your objective. 4. Recognize you can be difficult, too. 5. Try to understand why difficult people are difficult. Are they always hard to get along with, or just on those "bad days" everyone, including you, has? Could it be they are just different? Understand that what may be seen as normal behavior by some, could be outrageous in another's view. Salesmen often find accountants too difficult when they are finicky about numbers. On the other hand, CPA's may find salesmen, with their aggressive personalities and "big picture" views, hard to get along with. 6. Be big enough to accommodate with the difficult person, up to a point, so long a Colors and Resolution .Have you thought about your logo colors and what they stand for? If you're like most people, the answer is no. Many people simply choose colors that they like, or colors that feel good. One CEO I know likes his designers to use the colors of his alma mater in the designs he was given. But colors have meaning and choosing the right colors for your logo can better convey your brand. For example, many banks, insurance companies and investment firms use blue and gray as their corporate colors because these colors represent stability, trustworthiness, and conservative ideas. While health clubs, spas, and specia 4. Super-Agreeables: Very likable, outgoing people who will agree to anything, but rarely produce what they promise. 5. Negativists: For them, "It won't work, it's impossible." They are always complaining; always ready to criticize everything about the job; always gossiping. 6. Know-It-All Experts: These are superior types who want you to know how smart they are and to realize how incompetent you are. 7. Indecisives: They wait for someone else to make the decisions; if they do have to decide, they want to wait until everything is perfect. If things go wrong, someone else is at fault. TEN WAYS TO DEAL WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE Here are 10 common sense suggestions that should help in dealing with these difficult types. 1. Recognize you are not "just being negative and difficult" yourself when you acknowledge the reality that the world is brim full of difficult people. 2. Keep your eyes on your personal goals. Don't let hard-to-get-along-with people become a personal issue. Put them in the proper perspective. They are not your personal problem unless they impede your progress. 3. You don't have to like a person to get along with him or her. Working relationships are not like marriages. They are transient connections in the process of reaching your objective. 4. Recognize you can be difficult, too. 5. Try to understand why difficult people are difficult. Are they always hard to get along with, or just on those "bad days" everyone, including you, has? Could it be they are just different? Understand that what may be seen as normal behavior by some, could be outrageous in another's view. Salesmen often find accountants too difficult when they are finicky about numbers. On the other hand, CPA's may find salesmen, with their aggressive personalities and "big picture" views, hard to get along with. 6. Be big enough to accommodate with the difficult person, up to a point, so long a I Don't Want to be Different ETo succeed in today’s crowded marketplace where most of the products and advertising look exactly the same, a small business owner must stand out, shouting above the din with a message so clear and compelling that prospects stop and take notice. It’s a matter of business survival. Unfortunately, most entrepreneurs quickly retreat to the supposed security of sameness, soon to be lost in a sea of anonymity and a tidal wave of frustration. In effect, albeit at a subconscious level, they are saying , “I don’t want to be different”.In back room offices and store fronts everywhere, salespeople are tellin Here are 10 common sense suggestions that should help in dealing with these difficult types. 1. Recognize you are not "just being negative and difficult" yourself when you acknowledge the reality that the world is brim full of difficult people. 2. Keep your eyes on your personal goals. Don't let hard-to-get-along-with people become a personal issue. Put them in the proper perspective. They are not your personal problem unless they impede your progress. 3. You don't have to like a person to get along with him or her. Working relationships are not like marriages. They are transient connections in the process of reaching your objective. 4. Recognize you can be difficult, too. 5. Try to understand why difficult people are difficult. Are they always hard to get along with, or just on those "bad days" everyone, including you, has? Could it be they are just different? Understand that what may be seen as normal behavior by some, could be outrageous in another's view. Salesmen often find accountants too difficult when they are finicky about numbers. On the other hand, CPA's may find salesmen, with their aggressive personalities and "big picture" views, hard to get along with. 6. Be big enough to accommodate with the difficult person, up to a point, so long a How To Gear Up Your Network ctive.The art of Networking is a key ability for any type of entrepreneur. Networking can bring you important information as well as give others important information about you. As an aspiring or current business owner, networking should be an area of interest of prime importance to you and the future of you business. For those of us working via the internet only, the concept of networking becomes at the same time daunting and almost hilariously easy. Just point and click. You can even get software to help you contact people you want to network with. Personally I like to do most things manually, to get a f 4. Recognize you can be difficult, too. 5. Try to understand why difficult people are difficult. Are they always hard to get along with, or just on those "bad days" everyone, including you, has? Could it be they are just different? Understand that what may be seen as normal behavior by some, could be outrageous in another's view. Salesmen often find accountants too difficult when they are finicky about numbers. On the other hand, CPA's may find salesmen, with their aggressive personalities and "big picture" views, hard to get along with. 6. Be big enough to accommodate with the difficult person, up to a point, so long as they don’t stymie you. Let the difficult person run his course. 7. When you do have to butt heads, be firm. Don't argue. Don't get personal. State your case and move on. Be ready to let the difficult person back off the limb he has gone out on. 8. Try to ignore the person and the situation, especially if you are dealing with a certifiable "basket case." Maintain as much distance – physically, organizationally and emotionally – as possible between yourself and the source of difficulty. 9. However, try as you might, there may come a time when it makes common sense to recognize that some relationships are too difficult to live with. Go to your boss, explain the situation and ask him to resolve it by moving you to another position away from the trouble-maker or by correcting or removing that person. Keep in mind this can backfire unless you are clearly in the right. Go to your boss, explain the situation and ask him to resolve it by moving you to another position away from the trouble-maker or by correcting or removing that person. Keep in mind this can backfire unless you are clearly in the right. 10. Finally, if you have made your best effort along the lines discussed here and the difficulty still exists and it is hurting your personal life and career, you have but one choice. Learn to live with it, or leave for another position. Keep in mind, however, there will be difficult people wherever you go. You’ll have to deal with them or surrender.
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