evidence should the need arise. Many others make a couple of trips to an ineffective human resource department in order to lodge their complaints and if they are lucky, HR arranges a one on one meeting with their boss to try and resolve the situation. Others come to work depressed, stressed out and vowing to quit after giving their boss a piece of their mind (not recommended). Many turn to their religious or spirAre you working at a job where the boss has no interpersonal skills; micro-manages you and treats you like a child?

Do you work for a fault finding boss who yells, screams and talks to you in an arrogant and demeaning manner, even in the presence of your co-workers?

Are you are tired of walking on eggshells at work because any small thing you do could set off an “explosion”?

Is your boss hostile?

If you work for a hostile boss and nothing has been done to resolve the situation, you probably have been paying the price physically and emotionally. You probably realize that on many occasions, you have sleepless nights, you are depressed, your blood pressure has risen, you have constant migraines, you are losing or gaining weight, your friends think you whine too much, because all you talk about is your job and your boss, your self esteem is eroded and you are just so frustrated. You have even begun to think and believe that you are crazy and that perhaps you really are as incompetent and inadequate as the boss has been trying to make you believe.

Since this is a situation you have to deal with everyday, you are also starting to feel helpless.

This whole thing with work and the boss is consuming your life and it’s taking a toll on your health!

How do you handle working with a hostile boss?

Most people try to handle the situation by complaining to their co-workers, friends and family about how badly their boss is treating them. Others cry their eyes out in the bathroom or in their cubicles or even at home. Others keep journals to record every incident (date and time included) hoping to use it as evidence should the need arise. Many others make a couple of trips to an ineffective human resource department in order to lodge their complaints and if they are lucky, HR arranges a one on one meeting with their boss to try and resolve the situation. Others come to work depressed, stressed out and vowing to quit after giving their boss a piece of their mind (not recommended). Many turn to their religious or spiri

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If you work for a hostile boss and nothing has been done to resolve the situation, you probably have been paying the price physically and emotionally. You probably realize that on many occasions, you have sleepless nights, you are depressed, your blood pressure has risen, you have constant migraines, you are losing or gaining weight, your friends think you whine too much, because all you talk about is your job and your boss, your self esteem is eroded and you are just so frustrated. You have even begun to think and believe that you are crazy and that perhaps you really are as incompetent and inadequate as the boss has been trying to make you believe.

Since this is a situation you have to deal with everyday, you are also starting to feel helpless.

This whole thing with work and the boss is consuming your life and it’s taking a toll on your health!

How do you handle working with a hostile boss?

Most people try to handle the situation by complaining to their co-workers, friends and family about how badly their boss is treating them. Others cry their eyes out in the bathroom or in their cubicles or even at home. Others keep journals to record every incident (date and time included) hoping to use it as evidence should the need arise. Many others make a couple of trips to an ineffective human resource department in order to lodge their complaints and if they are lucky, HR arranges a one on one meeting with their boss to try and resolve the situation. Others come to work depressed, stressed out and vowing to quit after giving their boss a piece of their mind (not recommended). Many turn to their religious or spir

r job and your boss, your self esteem is eroded and you are just so frustrated. You have even begun to think and believe that you are crazy and that perhaps you really are as incompetent and inadequate as the boss has been trying to make you believe.

Since this is a situation you have to deal with everyday, you are also starting to feel helpless.

This whole thing with work and the boss is consuming your life and it’s taking a toll on your health!

How do you handle working with a hostile boss?

Most people try to handle the situation by complaining to their co-workers, friends and family about how badly their boss is treating them. Others cry their eyes out in the bathroom or in their cubicles or even at home. Others keep journals to record every incident (date and time included) hoping to use it as evidence should the need arise. Many others make a couple of trips to an ineffective human resource department in order to lodge their complaints and if they are lucky, HR arranges a one on one meeting with their boss to try and resolve the situation. Others come to work depressed, stressed out and vowing to quit after giving their boss a piece of their mind (not recommended). Many turn to their religious or spir

r life and it’s taking a toll on your health!

How do you handle working with a hostile boss?

Most people try to handle the situation by complaining to their co-workers, friends and family about how badly their boss is treating them. Others cry their eyes out in the bathroom or in their cubicles or even at home. Others keep journals to record every incident (date and time included) hoping to use it as evidence should the need arise. Many others make a couple of trips to an ineffective human resource department in order to lodge their complaints and if they are lucky, HR arranges a one on one meeting with their boss to try and resolve the situation. Others come to work depressed, stressed out and vowing to quit after giving their boss a piece of their mind (not recommended). Many turn to their religious or spir

evidence should the need arise. Many others make a couple of trips to an ineffective human resource department in order to lodge their complaints and if they are lucky, HR arranges a one on one meeting with their boss to try and resolve the situation. Others come to work depressed, stressed out and vowing to quit after giving their boss a piece of their mind (not recommended). Many turn to their religious or spiritual roots for peace, guidance and so forth. In most cases, all this happens to no avail.

How can you effectively deal with this situation and get back your life?

1. Start looking for another Job.

If your effort to resolve the situation has failed to work out and your health is at risk…the sooner you start exploring other options, the better.

While still holding on to your job, find out if you can be transferred to another department internally. At the same time, do everything in your power to mount an aggressive job search externally. Call up temporary agencies, send out resumes, call recruiters…do something and do it quickly.

As long as you are doing something to get out of the situation, you will get the strength to cope with the pressure at work. However, if after weighing your options and counting the cost, you feel that you can no longer continue to work at your job…jump ship and look for greener pastures elsewhere.

2. Create a protective mental shield around you.

This is a work survival skill you can use to block negativity at work. I call it “the see no evil, hear no evil skill”

This doesn’t mean denying that the situation exists. It is just one way of dealing with an undesirable situation. It is a means to protect your sanity. In this case, you program yourself to see and hear your boss but not really “see or hear them” Your boss could be yelling at you, but you purposely let it slide as if you did not hear anything. This helps not only protects your mind but also helps you retain control over the situation.

3. Stand up for yourself.

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